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34 Chicago, IL Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, French

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Grew up in Maine, lived in Colorado for a long stretch, and then moved to Chicago several years back for business school.
I love planning the year's big adventure - 2013 brought a trip to Peru & Colombia, this year I trekked through the Middle East and toured Southeast Asia, next year I'm headed to Africa to hike Kilimanjaro. I also love having dinner with friends, watching NFL (Pats) and MLB (Red Sox), and spoiling my two nephews. I exercise at least 6 days each week - nothing better than a tough workout followed by a great dinner out on the town. I'm not much of a cook but I am a mean baker - cakes, pies, brownies, tarts, you name it. So if you can grill up the entree, I'll bring the sweet stuff :)

I'm looking for someone who, first and foremost, loves to laugh. I think laughter should be a part of every day and I truly appreciate a great sense of humor. I'm very close with my family and friends; although they're spread across the country, I talk to and see them as often as I can. I am always up for trying new things (just got back from hiking my first 14'er in Colorado), love a bit of spontaneity, and hope to meet someone who will introduce me to new experiences.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am focused on the things that spark my passion and satisfy my curiosity. These primarily include traveling as much as possible, striving to continually improve myself and get the most out of life, and spending time with the people who matter to me. This year alone I have been in Dallas, Napa, Maine, Denver, Portugal, Peru, Colombia, Sicily, and Mexico to be with loved ones, explore new places, and celebrate life's milestones.

Professionally, I have worked as a management consultant for the past four years. While this has given me exposure to many industries and companies, I am in the midst of a career change to a role that leverages my experience but demands less travel. I am a driven and career-oriented woman, and my desire is to put my skills and experience to work in a more meaningful job that provides me with personal fulfillment and allows me to pursue the personal endeavors that are increasingly important to me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Listening and remembering things (you'll be surprised when I recall a small detail four months down the road)
- Asking questions about you and your life (I love learning about people's experiences and understanding what motivates them)
- Quoting Caddyshack (and other great movies that you might not have seen for 15 years)
- Organizing and planning (I am the boss of spreadsheets)
- Remembering birthdays (and calling/sending cards on them)
- Useless trivia
- Parallel parking
- Foreign languages, accents, and impressions
- Baking (cooking, not so much...)
- Organizing dinners, parties, and nights on the town
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My bright and friendly smile, blonde hair, and blue eyes before we chat. After that, my curiosity and sense of humor - a mix of sarcasm, dry wit, and a little childish humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'll do two of each:
Books - The Stand, The Catcher in the Rye
Movies - Caddyshack, Goodfellas
Shows - Breaking Bad, Curb Your Enthusiasm
Food - Steak, Middle Eastern
Music - just about anything, from The Who, to The Police, to Neil Young, to top 40 (great for the gym)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Diet Pepsi
Monday Night Football
Good food
Phone calls with and visits to friends and family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The fact that so many people who send me messages on this site obviously didn't read the last line of my "You should message me if..." section :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There's really no such thing for me. Over the past few months, my Friday nights have included: dinner out in Lisbon, dancing the night away in a sari at an Indian wedding in Dallas, camping under the stars in Peru, partying in Colombia, sipping delicious wine (is that redundant?) at a rehearsal dinner in Napa, and enjoying a girls' night out in Chicago.
You should message me if
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You are an outgoing, enthusiastic guy with a good sense of humor. I'm looking for someone who gets excited about an upcoming trip, dinner, game, or show, and someone who sees the humor in life and enjoys a good laugh. Also, I'm looking for someone who lives in the city of Chicago - busy schedules for both parties make Chicago/suburb relationships difficult. Finally, I'm much more likely to respond to a message that seeks to strike up a conversation, rather than a "Hi" or "How are you".