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45 M Philadelphia, PA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 38–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:21pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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I am a funny, literary guy looking for a female counterpart to hang out with. I like going to bookstores, films, live shows, theater, museums, restaurants, hiking, camping, and running. Being active is important for me (if only because I'm a writer/reader and need to move!). If you're funny and irreverent you get huge bonus points. I would like to have a serious relationship eventually but I am in no rush!

Pictures of me scaling Machu Picchu, diving in the Bay of Biscay, and juggling a set of Shinto steak knives while on my unicycle are forthcoming.

Seriously, people: What is up with the humble-brag pics? I get it: you're cool, you're worldly, you're passionate! Now, just relax a little bit.

*My drinking days are behind me. So if you're a real slugger or alcoholic-in-training, I'm probably not for you.
What I’m doing with my life
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I've recently started teaching English at a university. I love it. I will never set foot in a corporate cubicle again! (If that's your gig, no offense. It's just not for me.)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
slinging words around on paper (or in this case, in white boxes). Making you laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my wit. Yes, it's tangible.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read everything: classics, sci-fi, literary fiction, graphic novels, poetry, biographies, crime/mystery, memoirs, thrillers, history, journalism, and junk, lots of junk.

I love movies and films, from arthouse to indie to Hollywood. That said, I'm more drawn to quirky independent/foreign flicks than to blockbusters.

TV: I don't have cable. "True Detective" is ok. As is "Mad Men."

Music: [insert really cool bands you've never heard of here]

Food: I have to try something once, just on principle. Favorites: Indian, Middle Eastern, Japanese, Mexican, Italian, French, Vietnamese.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
passion, curiosity, love, food, water, sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why I continue to come to this site.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Eating out with friends, staying in with a great book, or hanging with my six-year-old girl.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like Downton Abbey.
You should message me if
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You're cool.