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45 Chicago, IL Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:18pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
As an adventurous, creative, youthful (that could also be interrupted as playful and fun), and gregarious .

Love the outdoors in any kind of weather - so long as you have the right gear I'm good to go.

Trying new restaurants, creating new experiences.

I enjoy photography and seeing arts through different lenses (eyes, camera, other peoples stories) locally, nationally, and internationally.

I adore a good laugh, which is typically at my own faux pas'.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Well after filling this out...Im not sure I have much time left.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being kind and caring to others, to a fault actually, but I am ok with that.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My big blue eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: A Prayer For Owen Meany, To Kill A Mockingbird, Confederacy of Dunces, The Great Gatsby
Movies: Wes Anderson flicks, Shawshank Redemption, The Usual Suspects, Fargo, Suspense and Action movies, Arrested Development
TV: Mad Men, Downton Abbey, Seinfeld, the News
Music: my iPod, NPR, classic rock,
Food: Fish, Salad, Chicken, Chocolate Mousse, Raspberries, Squash, and Wine
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Although not necessarily in this order, plus 6 things is not enough unless you don't count the basic needs in life (food, water, shelter)
1) My large and crazy (in a good way) family
2) Close dear friends
3) Music/Technology
4) Exercising
5) A sound of a child laughing/giggling
6) Intimacy (winks)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where I want to travel next - kissing a cute man deeply and passionately.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working out then grabbing a drink after work with my work friends or meeting up with others or making a meal at home, depending on the work week and mood.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can wiggle my eyes, although not when its dark or I have had more than one drink.
You should message me if
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any thing catches your eye, have a question and/or want to have a fun date (or two)...