I would only accept a monogamous relationship. I would never cheat. I would be very focused on you and your needs and desires. My life would be committed to you and I would sacrifice any of my needs to make your life better. As far as me being romantic, I have been and will always be the man and bring you flowers.....just because. I would whisper sweet things in your ear and hold you like I would never let go. You would feel secure, wanted and loved. You would be welcomed into my family as they would accept and love you, too. You would also laugh a lot! I am always looking to see the humor in life and I usually find it. I love being silly and child-like when it is appropriate. I agree that trust is paramount between two people. I have always been the person you can count on. If I say I will do something I will do it. But, I don't over-extend my bounds. I don't promise impossible things. Since my father passed away last month, I have learned some things about myself. Throughout my life my father has supported me in everything I have done. At the end of his life he needed me to be by his side and I was there for him. I lived with him in a hospice house for 15 days and held his hand while he went through his last days.
It is true we all have our defects and yes, I am not perfect. None of us are. But, I believe that we all try to be good people. I like to treat people like I like to be treated. My parents raised me to be a kind, respectful and humble person. I also am very open-minded. I don't care who you are where you are from, your nationality or color of your skin. We are all people and deserve RESPECT. I'll admit, I have an extremely soft spot for Asian women, but am open to all!
Charisma is one of my great characteristics. I have been told that many times throughout my life. I have always maintained a proper weight. Growing up in Pennsylvania, I played soccer all the time. I was always in shape and know about what it takes to stay fit. My current job provides me with great exercise, lifting and being on the move, constantly. I don't play any organized sports now. But, I will never be fat and would want to look good for myself and for you, too. I don't have any drama in my life. I have never been married and don't have kids which is where a lot of drama comes from. My family is very normal and grounded. I couldn't ask for a better one!
I want to have someone to come home to after work. I want someone to have dinner with and to go take a walk on the beach holding hands. Someone to hug and to hold. As far as my personality goes,I am charismatic and filled with personality! I think I'm funny, but that's subjective. I think a bit outside the box. Obviously, there are times to be serious, but I am usually joking around and being silly. I am honest and trustworthy and dependable. I am affectionate, caring and honest. I am handy. I like to do lot's of different things. I like fairs, festivals, antiquing, playing pool, the beach. I love to travel! I have been to Italy, Switzerland, Germany, Mexico, Canada and about 35 of the United States. For vacation, I usually go to my mom's house on Martha's Vineyard and go fishing, hang out with family and friends and, of course, go to the beach. I like lot's of different music (Rock, Oldies, Top 40, The Blues). I was a DJ for 8 years. I am responsible, neat, and organized. Dislike the snow/cold weather. I don't smoke, drink or do drugs. I don't have any kids, but don't mind if you do. My favorite TV shows are The Daily Show and The Big Bang Theory, Family Guy, Tosh.0 and the news. I enjoy current events. I like all the Boston sports teams.
Well, I hope I have given you a deeper look into my life and beliefs and would consider me as a friend first and maybe even someone that you would share your deepest thoughts and desires.