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41 M Reynoldsburg, OH

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 26–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single

My Details

Last Online
Oct 16
Hispanic / Latin, White
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a romantic and I'm a cynic. I'm an atheist and I have faith. I want everything and I want nothing.

Who am I? I'm a series of contradictions. I'm an engineer by education, a professional actor and a playwright. I'm shy in groups but have no problems getting up in front of large crowds. I'm quiet until you get to know me, then you'll have a hard time getting me to be quiet. Most people tell me that they were intimidated by me the first time they saw me, then were surprised to find that I'm prety much a big teddy bear - usually. I'm a closet geek or an out geek, depending on how you know me.

I love books, live music, the theatre, movies, soccer, baseball and cooking. I have two cats.

We landed on the moon. Oswald acted alone. There are no alien bodies stored in government installations anywhere. The designated hitter is the bane of baseball. People who think soccer is boring don't understand it. Bush lied. Media bias is a myth. Sex is like hockey - if no one gets hurt you're not really playing right. Clapton really is god.

I am quiet, surprising, and sad
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Like I said above, I'm an actor - I work with a dinner theatre here in Columbus. During the day I work for an insurance company. My greatest ambition is to be a professional playwright.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, writing, acting, glaring at people until they become uncomfortable. I cannot stress enough how useful that last skill is in everyday life.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I look perpetualy angry. I'm not, I just look that way. Really.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.

To Kill a Mockingbird - I read it at least once a year

Harry Potter

anything by Douglas Adams

anything by Shakespeare

various and sundry histories and biographies

anything - really, just about anything that has been put on paper has some value



The Usual Suspects


Sense and Sensibility

Reservoir Dogs

Love Actually


Finding Nemo

Hard Boiled

LotR Trilogy

Silence of the Lambs

Lola Rennt

Shakespeare in Love

anything by Hitchcock

anything by Kevin Smith


any blues (preferably live)

anything by Clapton (see above)

anything by B. B. King, John Lee Hooker, Muddy Waters or Ray Charles

anything by Barenaked Ladies

Evanescence - Tourniquet

The Smiths - How Soon is Now?

Goo Goo Dolls - Iris

Johnny Cash - Hurt (not really a country fan, and I know Nine Inch Nails did it first, but Cash really brings out the raw, visceral emotion in the lyrcis)

Duran Duran (yeah, you heard me right - you got something to say about that?)

Guns 'n Roses - Sweet Child O' Mine (it reminds me of someone)

Etta James - At Last

Fruteland Jackson - Blues 2.0 (who'd have thought to do a field holler on modern office work?)

Sheryl Crow (no songs in particular, but you gotta love that voice)





The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, the blues, good sushi, my family, and my two other things were traded for a first round draft pick.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Mortality. It's what keeps me up at night.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It depends on the week. Usually I have a show, so I'm at some theatre or other.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm safer than I look. Or am I?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you love music and can introduce me to something new. If you'll go for sushi with me. If you can help me hide the bodies. If you need a good spanking. You own your own leather restraints. You have a brain and aren't afraid to use it. If you don't think it's odd that I have sixteen different versions of Leonard Cohen's "Hallelujah". If you recognize the punctuation error in the previous sentence, but understand why I did it on purpose. If you have the inclination to.