So I have decided at this very moment I am over it. Done, finito, comepletely finished. Yes I am sure that a great many of us have gotten the "lets just be friends line". It's a classic and while not fun on the recieveing end a great tool when setting boundries. This is my problem, after said boundries are set both parties should adhere to said boundries right? Right. I have a slight problem when a certain boundry setter tells me that if he were not intimately involved with his girlfriend I would so be his type. While the frankness is appriciated the blunt honestly I could have done without. The would of, could of, should of's are a bit over rated and I want some thing now not a what if.     

Senario: You see two people of the opposite sex walking towards you down the street. They are both looking right at you and you know there is one thing on their mind and it involves you. One is physically appealing I mean dripping with sex. The other not so visually stimulating but is someone with whom you feel so comfortable with you could tell them anything. They both walk up to you and ask if you would like to go back to their place for a night cap.

You can only choose one to go home with and will never see the other one again. what do you do? 

Boredom ensues as I watch a movie for the fiftieth time (its a good movie but at this point used more for background noise) I sit and wonder. New year, new possibilities, new adventures to be had and yet I sit and and the promise of change that was to come ...well nothing's changed. I don't want to sound morose and self serving because thats not interesting to read. So the question I pose to you is this. does one incite change or let change happen?  and is it an intrinsic change or an overt one that makes the difference?

You plan to hang out with a friend and find out at the last minute they are brining their significant other along. You try to find someone else to go with you but alas everyone else is busy. So your stuck, can't cancell they are around the cornner your it fate sealed you have now become the third wheel. The gimpy wheel on the trycicle, awkwardness ensues as you sip your coffee across the table from the happy couple who share understood looks, holding hands and softly laughing as they share a danish. "Abort! Abort!" is echoing through your head, exit strategy a) fake phone call emergency, b) find a back entrance and slip out, or c) yell fire and run away.

What do you do to get out of being the third wheel? suggestions are welcome =)

As the family invades and Christmas ensues the acute awareness of being single turns into a full blown assult on your social life. Yes ok fine, this is the reason I frequent this site. Yes I know it's comming from the women of my family, but really is it such a huge problem. I have no plans to change my status within the next 27 hrs so singe I will remain (at least for the rest of 2009). Ok people got any tips to deflect the awkward questions I'm all ears...

When I have the opportunity I like to go to Disneyland. Besides the bank breaking souveniers, the rides and show's filled with smiling performers bathed in glitter rivaling the sparkling vampires of twilight, I love to people watch. Kids turn into monsters and parents turn into verbally abusing picture mongers. My favorite thing to do is watch how the kids meltdown into tears and tantrums then how the parents deal with it. Lots of stuff to see but it's always the people that are the mst fun. =)

The holidays are upon us folks. With three weeks until Christmas and even less for Chaunaka, the way to show you care about your loved ones gets reduced to standing in line and fighting the crowds to find the perfect gift. But being a college student with little extra cash to spend on the hot item this year...well necessity is the mother of invention right? So here's my question of the day, What was the most creative gift you've given anyone?  

So as I try and find a quiet place to study for the ever present finals that punctuate the end of the semester, I hear melodic melodies wafting through the hallway. I find the souce of it, four of the worst words strung together..."open mic and kereoke".

And there it was the ubiquitous college trubidor angry strumming on his guitar into the mic regaling us all with his trials of the long distance relationship of his past. show of hands of who thinks this should be outlawed? 

The f word. You know what it is, I'm sure you've used it before too. So my question is this, what qualifies a person to be a solid in the friend zone? 

Yes I said it the dreaded F word.

I'm over it and need some answers lol.

Cliche'd yes but always fun who can come up with the best one? And who will admit to using it?