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chillnorm

26 / M / Straight / Single

Oakland, California

His Details

Last Online
Today – 6:45pm
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Banking / Financial / Real Estate
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently)

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My self-summary
My life is a continuing journey to discover, learn, and figure out who I truly am and what I'm meant to do. I seek to find happiness in everything I do, from my work to my hobbies to my relationships. I am so appreciative of all those around me and everything that has come into my life...but I never stop going for more.
What I’m doing with my life
Professionally, I work in the corporate world, and I'm driven by understanding and solving real world problems while working with people. I enjoy my job a lot and look forward to the challenges that I get to face and the people I get to work with. I worked hard to get to where I am today, but I ultimately work to live and not live to work.

At the same time, I'm passionate about the craft of acting. I attend acting school and spend time working on scenes and exercises with others. I strive to create those spontaneous, natural, and emotionally deep moments. I feel that I have grown a lot as a person from my studies.
I’m really good at
I'm really good at being my true authentic self. I know what I want and what I don't want.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably how easygoing, positive, and optimistic I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: It's hard to find time for me to read, but I enjoy reading about spirituality and personal development.

Food: I'll try almost anything. The Bay Area has so much to offer, and I enjoy spending time checking out new restaurants.

TV: The Office, 30 Rock, Modern Family, 24, CSI NY, CSI, Damages, Burn Notice, Big Bang Theory, Suits, Numb3rs, Arrested Development. As an actor, I highly respect the work that these professional actors put out and appreciate how hard it is to create something that feels real and touches the audience. I know there are a lot of other good shows out there, but I don't always have the time to watch everything.
The six things I could never do without
friends, family, internet, coffee/tea, sleep, time for myself
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think a lot about how grateful I am for my family, friends, and this wonderful life I have going for me. I'm a pretty optimistic and happy person, and look to meet people with similar attitudes towards life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably relaxing after a long week's work, catching up on TV, laundry, reading, surfing online, catching up on MMA, occasionally going out for happy hour or hanging out with friends. I usually like to use Friday to unwind.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Meditation gets me through the toughest challenges and allows me to relax, let go, and grow as a person.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 20–27
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You should message me if you are kind, genuine, respectful, and honest.