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30 Los Angeles, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 23
6′ 3″ (1.91m)
Body type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids

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What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a screenwriter, so let's get that career part out of the way there. But I guess it's a lame way to describe what I'm doing with my life. I write a lot and I read a lot, too. And I watch a lot of movies. And if that sounds really hopelessly boring, which sometimes it does (and is), Henry James (or someone) said or wrote (or something) that a writer's sole responsibility's to be interesting. So I try to apply that little paraphrased, misconstrued, misremembered aphorism to my life. I'd like to look back from my deathbed -- or at least to think to myself as my car flips end over end -- and say "Ha. Weird. That was interesting."

So yeah, on the other side of that whole reading-writing-'rithmetic thing, I have an obsession with good stories. I love to drag people to unexpected places with unexpected outcomes and just hopefully have the night tumble into a great story that we'll all be telling each other for a long time. And it's not just wild stuff -- sometimes it's all staying in and talking with a newly assembled odd group of people and finding out everything about them.

Does that make sense?

I've also got this band called BRAAINZZ.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Maybe my shirt or something. Shoes. Face.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books/Authors: I love Moby Dick. And I'm a huge Pynchon fan; Against The Day's tied with Moby Dick for things that blew my mind crazily and made me crylaugh. So those are the big ones. Kurt Vonnegut. Allen Ginsberg. Coleridge. Italo Svevo's "Zeno's Conscience" is great, too. I dunno. Beckett. William T. Vollmann. William Gibson's cool, too.

Movies: Fargo, Chinatown, and Brazil. All named after places, all my favorites. Harmony Korine's Mister Lonely was pretty great and flawed. Sometimes I'd rather go to the mat over flawed-but-beautiful than I would over well-crafted-and-classic, y'know?

Music: I dunno, man. This song came on while I was writing this:

It's weird to just list all this stuff off, 'cause it's irrelevant in a way. I think it'd be cool if you hated my favorite things -- then you could show me some pretty interesting shit, I'll bet.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Other People
The Sky
My Glasses
New Things
Old Things
Crazy People
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My car was stolen about a month ago. The other day, my neighbor comes over and, guess the fuck what, he tells me it's over in a McDonald's parking lot like 3 blocks away. We hop in his Ford Focus and Lo and behold, there's my car. So he and I stole it back.

When I'm driving it, I spend a lot of time thinking about what kind of adventure it went on.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out tayin it up.

Or home tayin it up.

Or chillin.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Honestly, I'm willing to admit just about anything. For example: I'm obsessed with Lana Del Rey. No no no -- like, OBSESSED.
You should message me if
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You should message me for absolutely any reason at all.

The only reason you shouldn't message me is if you've ever said: "I mean, I like all kinds of music" (then you *paused* and added) "except country and rap."