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60 M Dedham, MA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:05pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Not at all
Other, and very serious about it
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Former dancer/filmmaker/woodworker, wannabe musician, occasional sculptor & composer. A lover of connection and conversation whose soul food is solitude.
What I’m doing with my life
Rehabbing my quiet cottage on the river. Trying to play guitar, harmonica and piano, thereby destroying 500 years of Western music.

I have a great job as the house carpenter for a world-class music conservatory. So I know just how bad a musician I am! Yet I've been invited to play and compose with this lot. I am very lucky and they are very tolerant.
Eagerly devising and revising my 5- and 10-year plans to get the most travel and art-making time possible.
I’m really good at
Listening, thinking outside the box. Procrastinating.
The first things people usually notice about me
Never asked. Blue eyes? They also notice that I'm 5' 6 1/2 ", not 5'6.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Histories, bios, Nabokov, Borges, Garcia Marquez. The New Yorker, Louise Erdrich, Graham Greene. Wide range, foreign and domestic.

Raging Bull (and lots of Scorcese), Zoolander, Tropic Thunder, Christopher Guest, Louis Malle, film noir, Herzog, Fassbinder, Cassavetes, Wenders. Boogie Nights! Philip Seymour Hoffman (alas)

Jazz from Bix to Bird to Bill Frissell, blues, The Who, Talking Heads, Tom Waits. Looking at her body of work, Joni Mitchell should win the Nobel Prize. Some hip hop, Beethoven & all kinds of classical & modern. Arvo Part, Third Stream, Americana, West African pop... not a fan of current pop music in general....

No TV, don't have cable. Not a sports nut, but watch the Pats, of course...
The six things I could never do without
My son, six times over
Six strings: EADGBE
Six sibs.
My '67 Guild
Mountains and the woods. Ocean, too.
Kind of Blue.
(Six sidemen and six songs, if you get the '97 reissue)

And the Bonus Track: Richard Thompson's solo on "My Soul, My Soul". Definitely.
I spend a lot of time thinking about

I also think about what the Dalai Lama says every time I see him. "You're much better looking than your picture! Not very photogenic, are we?" Such a kidder! But it's true.
On a typical Friday night I am
Thinking about dating.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Under a flippant, shallow exterior is a flippant, shallow core. Actually, as I get older I find things touch me more and more deeply and I tear up at the drop of a hat. I heard Beethoven's "Ode to Joy" live for the first time recently and I was destroyed. So don't drop a hat while whistling Beethoven.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–63
  • Near me
  • For casual sex
You should message me if
You are independent, adventurous, fit, funnyfunnyfunny and maybe a mite askew. You are happily engrossed in your art, your work, your world, looking to forget all that when you're with me.