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31 Tucson, AZ Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:22am
White, Other
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
A little extra
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Portuguese (Somewhat), Other (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Welcome to my profile. I'm Sam. Sam I am.

I'm from East Central Illinois, but more recently I've lived in some awesome places, such as rural Panama, Guatemala, Oakland, and now Tucson!

I am currently a graduate student. Things I have been in the past include Peace Corps Volunteer, baker, marathon runner, high school dropout. I have some ideas about the future, but nothing is certain.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I like school, and I tend to have my hands in many different projects, internships, volunteer efforts, etc. Grateful daily for the opportunities I have to participate in such things. I have the capacity for snark, but I prefer to be positive about life and about people.

I love outdoor activities, intellectual pursuits and culinary endeavors. I spend an excess of time on two wheels, and the biggest line items on my budget are always food-related. Cooking is my primary creative outlet and my favorite way to socialize.

So, those are the things I focus on mostly. Dating doesn't play a huge role in my life. But I do love meeting new people and making connections.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Speaking obscure languages, anthropologizing, okcupiding, scrabbling. Baking breads and making big pots of tasty soups. Swinging machetes. Generating food porn. Hitting the snooze button.

Making people say "...and this is why we can't have nice things."
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Given the places that I've lived over the past half decade, mostly that I'm white.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Sometimes I search OKCupid for girls with the phrase "Oxford English Dictionary" in their profile. Result? 100% ultra-hotties.

TV: I dig girls who LOL at Frasier

Music and food: I like my chocolate like I like my claviers.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- internet
- corrective lenses
- lovely people
- this nagging feeling that I need to accomplish something with my life
- exercise. endorphine withdrawl is definitely a thing.

- coffee. I hate to sound hipsterish but it is my primary vice.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I should spend less time by myself and more time with myself.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
andando de vago
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I totally have a thing for Ewan McGregor.

I'm essentially 99.99999% heterosexual. The other 0.00001% pines for Ewan McGregor.

that said, I was really delighted to stumble upon this:
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're a scientist and/or opera singer.

You want to play scrabble or ride bikes with me.

You want to get drunk and watch Disney movies and sing the duets with me while my roommates all cower in their bedrooms with their pillows over their heads trying as hard as they can to block us out.

You don't take this too seriously.

If you're the type of woman who sends first messages to men, you are totally my kind of woman.