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43 M Chicago, IL

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:36pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Very often
Other, and laughing about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Perpetual thinker, chef, musician, dog lover and classic motorcycle enthusiast. Liberal, open minded and funny.

My wife and I have an open marriage and date other people, separately. We're open and honest with each other. The best way to describe me is "ethical non-monogamist". I'm on OKC to find interesting people and new friends as well as some chemistry and intimacy along the way.

I make a great East coast pizza from scratch and love all things beer. In a past life I was a professional musician and to this day I still listen to anything and everything as well as play acoustic guitar.

If you describe yourself as tolerant, inquisitive, funny, goofy, bawdy or any other fun descriptor that helps hoist your freak flag, we should chat.
What I’m doing with my life
Working normal hours doing R&D work, which eliminates closing restaurants at 2:00am and frees up my weekends. Helping out a great NFP that saves dogs.
I’m really good at
Analyzing and figuring out anything put in front of me.
Being an objective listener and practicing logic, but when necessary having a friend's back even when they're completely off their rocker.
Cutting through the BS!
Wrangling crazy dogs.
Turning any event into a song.
Making strange noises and doing impressions.
The first things people usually notice about me
Blue eyes and a facial scar. I'll save the scar story for later.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: anything from Michael Crichton, John Irving and Thomas Keller. Open, The Ethical Slut.
Movies: I just watched "Her" and I'm still thinking about it. Sign of a good movie. Caddyshack, It's A Wonderful Life, Dazed and Confused, American History X, Dogma, Hiro Dreams of Sushi, Ghostbusters, Argo, Gattaca and two out of three movies in a number of different trilogies (with the exception of hobbits).
Shows: smartly written sitcoms, Freaks and Geeks, Raising Hope, Deadliest Catch, DWTS, SOA, Homeland and the Today show. Robot Chicken, The Millionaire Matchmaker and Modern Family.
Musicals/Plays: Couldn't get through The Addams Family or Billy Elliott (just couldn't do it) but loved Jersey Boys and recently saw Jimmy Smits in MotherF$#ker with a Hat. The Book of Mormon now sits atop my list of incredible.
The six things I could never do without
In no particular order: family and friends, laughter, beer, music, dogs and self awareness.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What's going to come of all this?
How clever becomes more difficult as you go with these profiles.
What my dogs are thinking about.
How to spread tolerance.
On a typical Friday night I am
If I'm not home drinking a beer and enjoying a bowl, I'm at a restaurant or a local bar (someplace with a good beer list), maybe catching some live music. I'm not a huge fan of screaming over too much bass while sweating under light shows. Read: young hippie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I used to dress up in lederhosen and play tuba at an amusement park. It was a job. I wasn't freelancing!
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're up for a fun date with no hidden agendas.
You like guys that are respectful and don't include naked pics in emails or assume you put out. I'm looking for more than a fuck buddy.
You're ok with the fact that I a.) have a primary relationship and b.) that's not changing.
Any of this sounds interesting.
You dig good banter.
You like swapping international travel stories. I've been to Costa Rica and Amsterdam to name a few and love hearing about where you've been. This September I'm traveling to China!! Whoop!!