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44 Chicago, IL Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 32–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:56am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Very often
Other, and laughing about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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ENFJ, wiseass, perpetual thinker, musician, dog lover, classic motorcycle enthusiast and confident, funny guy. Liberal, open minded and inquisitive.

My wife and I have an open marriage and date other people, separately. We're open and honest with each other. I'm on OKC to find interesting people and new friends as well as some chemistry, great conversation and intimacy along the way.

I make a great East coast pizza from scratch and love all things beer. In a past life I was a professional musician and to this day I still listen to anything and everything as well as play acoustic guitar.

If you describe yourself as tolerant, inquisitive, funny, goofy, bawdy or any other fun descriptor that helps hoist your freak flag, we should chat.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working normal hours doing R&D work, which eliminates closing restaurants at 2:00am and frees up my weekends. Helping out a great NFP that rescues dogs.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Analyzing and figuring out anything put in front of me.
Engaging on a date, being in the moment and having fun.
Being an objective listener and practicing logic, but when necessary having a friend's back even when they're completely off their rocker.
Making people laugh.
Cutting through the BS!
Wrangling crazy dogs.
Turning any event into a song.
Making strange noises and doing impressions.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Blue eyes and a facial scar. I'll save the scar story for later.
These days my crazy awesome new glasses!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: anything from Michael Crichton, John Irving and Thomas Keller. Open, The Ethical Slut.
Movies: I just watched "Her" and I'm still thinking about it. Sign of a good movie. Caddyshack, It's A Wonderful Life, Dazed and Confused, American History X, Dogma, Hiro Dreams of Sushi, Ghostbusters, Argo, Gattaca and two out of three movies in a number of different trilogies (with the exception of hobbits).
Shows: smartly written sitcoms, Freaks and Geeks, Raising Hope, Deadliest Catch, DWTS, SOA, Homeland and the Today show. Robot Chicken, The Millionaire Matchmaker and Modern Family. Fucking Theresa Caputo on Long Island Medium. The shit is real.
Musicals/Plays: Couldn't get through The Addams Family or Billy Elliott (just couldn't do it) but loved Jersey Boys and recently saw Jimmy Smits in MotherF$#ker with a Hat. The Book of Mormon now sits atop my list of incredible.
Music: I've recently seen Devil in a Woodpile, Def Leppard and Kiss. I also dig the CSO and pretty much everything in between. I also love to learn about new music and bands. Currently digging Hozier and Racoon.
Food: pizza, sushi, thai, mexican (regional), french, gastropub. Totally over molecular gastronomy. Been there, done that.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
the wife, the dogs, the cat, my motorcycle (it will survive the Zombie Apocalypse and we'll need wheels), my guitar and beer.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How fortunate I am. My life is better than it has ever been and it continues to grow in love and learning.

How to rescue dogs as a career and eventually retire someplace quiet in Central America. Costa Rica and Nicaragua are high on the list.

Where the funny, genuine, smart people are. Are you hiding? Come out, come out, wherever you are!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Could be on a date. Could be relaxing with dogs. Could be listening to some live music. Could be at a lifestyle event. Could be passed out on the couch while Jimmy Fallon plays in the back ground. The man is KILLING it!!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Non monogamy has become much more than I ever thought it could be and I write about it on a blog.
You should message me if
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You're up for a fun date with no hidden agendas.
You like guys that are respectful and don't include naked pics in emails or assume you put out. I'm looking for more than a fuck buddy.
You're ok with the fact that I a.) have a primary relationship and b.) that's not changing.
Any of this sounds interesting.
You dig good banter.
You like swapping international travel stories. I've been to Costa Rica and Amsterdam to name a few and love hearing about where you've been. This September I'm traveling to China!! Whoop!!

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