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59 Santa Maria, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 48–61
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Officially off the dating charts. Didn't meet anyone, or THE ONE, just focusing on career. Income has dropped off, and we all know how the material world has taken over the romantic world - alas - in a woman's mind, anyway. Writer, photographer, romantic adventurer, creative spirit. I understand all who pass and who have passed me by - wise choice, probably, as I've noticed that most women don't want a guy who is out of the box and free, ya'll want a routine guy! :-) Those women who are creative/artistic/free, will "get" all of that, as I "get" you.

Freelancing in the arts, I'm a produced screenwriter, published author about to be published again, photographer. Have worked in show biz professionally for 40 years, and not now looking for a day job because I'm working in the arts. Yes, there really are people who make those movies, stage shows, art works, you all watch and pay money to see. As I told my middle child once upon a time, when he was in Little League, don't tell your friends daddy is working in Star Trek VI, because no one will believe you. He told them anyway, and no one believed him.

I'm proudly not an accountant, a businessman, ditch digger, teacher, office whatever, mechanic, computer guy, I'm in the arts, and I'm going to be very very very weird to your lifestyle - if you're use to the ordinary, the complacent, the routine, or even the bad boy (artists, in nature, are never bad boys. We tend to be romantics, lovers, adventurers, and see each morning as new, exciting, and away we go).

Thinking I'm better off with someone who can grab my hand and run with me in this insane business as the arts.
But can't date now, anyway.
Having way too much fun.



Artistic spirit, who loves adventuring out into the wilds. I gravitate toward the mountains, open country, to rivers and lakes, love hanging out with the wild animals, taking pictures, long walks along dirt paths surrounded by impossibly tall Redwood trees. I like the oneness that two individuals can bring together - separate, different, but as one. I am kind in spirit, have never treated a woman like a door mat (watching my parents love each other until the day they died helped me to see how a relationship is best worked). I learned from my dad how to treat women with dignity, equality, respect, faithfulness, appreciation and love. I'm a believer in the fairy tale because of my dad.

I'm a Christian who is more focused on love and forgiveness than worrying about the rules of religion, if you catch my drift. I don't judge, I listen. "Take the log out of you own eye, so you can clearly see the speck of sawdust out of your brother's," and, "help those who cannot help themselves," being two of my favorite Scriptures.

I'm all about kindness, forgiveness, being thoughtful and treating others the way I'd like to be treated. I'm love centered and not material world centered. Mine is a creative/artistic soul. I thank God for each and every day, and wake up feeling the world is new and I am young again.

Friendship, I doeth believe, is an awesome foundation to build a relationship upon. I think, therefore, that one should marry their best friend. Would love to have a partner, a mate, someone to adore and spoil, and make her feel she is the only woman upon this earth of ours.
What I’m doing with my life
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Being grateful for all of God's wonderful blessings. Beginning with my three sons. And the marvelous friends that I have.

I'm a produced scriptwriter, published author, photographer, producer, and anything else my creative spirit takes me. :-) And seeking adventure wherever it may be found.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being there for others, unpretentious, creative, and I don't believe in boredom. Also, I'd like to add, can make any one laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Besides being tall? I would hope people would notice, that I'm genuine. That I can look into your eyes, and you know, that I care.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like history books and the older classics. Favorite authors would be Jack London, Mark Twain. Of late, Ross MacDonald, Annie Dillard.

Favorite films - Casablanca, Citizen Kane, The Quiet Man, The Searchers, Harvey, Some Like It Hot, and my most favorite fun romance - Love, Actually.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1 - love and forgiveness from a loving, living God
2 - my kids
4 - my friends
5 - the arts and the creative spirit
6 - romance, affection, chocolate, dancing and walks in the rain
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I'd love to be a blessing to one woman. Secondly - how can I win you over each and every day. I'm in want to be your best friend.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If nothing else, I am never typical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'd rather snuggle with you on the couch after dinner than worry about the dishes. (Key word above is "willing to admit".)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. believe in the fairy tale, believe in love, practice the art of communication and affection, and you'd like to find another creative soul mate misfit who will understand you.

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