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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 48–61
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
May 25
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body type
Christianity, and very serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from two-year college
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
PLEASE NOTE: I'm not an upgraded member, therefore I do not know who wants to meet me (not assuming there's anyone who does, just - in - case)

Believer in the fairytale, believer that love is the greatest of all things. I crave communication, equality, practicing the Golden Rule, affection, and pursuing life, liberty, adventure, and chocolate.

I've never been IN the box, so I can't simply tell you that I'm out of it. I'm creative, artistic, freelancing in the entertainment industry, and just want to give you all a fair warning that I don't plan on going back to the day job world. Heh heh heh. I'm not a couch potato, though I do believe that couches are great place for snuggling.

Hobbies/interests include however not limited to: horseback riding, archery, sailing, skiing, camping, dancing, astronomy, travel, sports, kissing/snuggling (pattern here?), historical subjects, research, photography, writing, listening, more listening. Aforementioned believer in the fairy tale, the art of communication and affection (in case you missed it). Have never treated a woman like a doormat. Love to explore the inner workings of the female heart.

Have a career in the arts which I love. Highs and lows however that is the nature of the entertainment show biz beast. Work on being grateful and humble for all life has given me. I'm a Christian who focuses on the two Commandments Christ gave us "Love the Lord with all your heart, mind, soul...and love your neighbor as you love yourself." I'm all about love and forgiveness, and not into the rules of religion, if you catch my drift.

What makes me unique? I always stumble at such questions as we're all unique. Rather you discover what makes me different all on your own. Each woman is going to have their own point of view. What would yours be? Let's find out.

(Can't believe I'm having to add this: PLEASE be legally divorced, not sorta divorced. I crave honesty and communication in a relationship. And I'm my own normal. Cheers!)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Being grateful for all of God's wonderful blessings. Beginning with my three sons. And the marvelous friends that I have.

I'm a produced scriptwriter, published author, photographer, producer, and anything else my creative spirit takes me. :-) And seeking adventure wherever it may be found.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being there for others, unpretentious, creative, and I don't believe in boredom. Also, I'd like to add, can make any one laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Besides being tall? I would hope people would notice, that I'm genuine. That I can look into your eyes, and you know, that I care.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like history books and the older classics. Favorite authors would be Jack London, Mark Twain. Of late, Ross MacDonald, Annie Dillard.

Favorite films - Casablanca, Citizen Kane, The Quiet Man, The Searchers, Harvey, Some Like It Hot, and my most favorite fun romance - Love, Actually.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1 - love and forgiveness from a loving, living God
2 - my kids
4 - my friends
5 - the arts and the creative spirit
6 - romance, affection, chocolate, dancing and walks in the rain
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I'd love to be a blessing to one woman. Secondly - how can I win you over each and every day. I'm in want to be your best friend.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If nothing else, I am never typical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'd rather snuggle with you on the couch after dinner than worry about the dishes. (Key word above is "willing to admit".)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. believe in the fairy tale, believe in love, practice the art of communication and affection, and you'd like to find another creative soul mate misfit who will understand you.