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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 48–61
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 11:01am
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 5" (1.96m)
Body Type
Two-year college
Has kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
UPDATE NOTE: Please kindly take note that I am not a full member, therefore I can't respond to MEET ME's. :-) So, yeah, please, if you think you'd like to meet, please feel unafraid to send me a note. Thank you!

Relationship I'm looking for. Adventurous, creative woman who is more misfit than your average church going normal. Your family and most of the known universe don't understand you? Hey, I'm your kinda guy. Live in the moment. Don't worry about tomorrow. Be unafraid of life. Please be open, honest, and know that I am not a mind reader. :-) I DO know how to say "I was wrong."

If you're looking for a bad boy that wouldn't be me.
If you're looking for a guy with a steady job and income (right now, today) that wouldn't be me. Wondering how many women I've just lost with THAT last line. (Note, working, just not consistent. Showbiz for you.) ((Guess I should add that I freelance in the arts. I'm a produced and published writer, film maker...yes, I don't have a day job.))

Why friendship mode? I believe guys pay for dates, I'm all for the rules of courtship (you lucky women you) Can't afford it, and I'm NOT looking for a woman to pay . I can afford to be platonic, and a faithful friend.

If you're looking for a male type that won't abuse you, will listen to your every story, give you some companionship/encouragement/friendship until your knight comes along, that would be me.

I'm a Christian who believes in the essentials, like love, forgiveness, and treating others the way I'd like to be treated. I'm not into the zillion rules of religion, I'm into the two commandments Christ gave us, both of which include the word LOVE.

AND - please be legally divorced. Not sorta divorced. Yes, even on a friendship mode.

What I’m doing with my life
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Script writing, producing, being creative, and enjoying being with my kindred mates.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being there for others, unpretentious, creative, and I don't believe in boredom. Also, I'd like to add, can make any one laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Besides being tall? I would hope people would notice, that I'm genuine. That I can look into your eyes, and you know, that I care.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like history books and the older classics. Favorite authors would be Jack London, Mark Twain. Of late, Ross MacDonald, Annie Dillard.

Favorite films - Casablanca, Citizen Kane, The Quiet Man, The Searchers, Harvey, Some Like It Hot, and my most favorite fun romance - Love, Actually.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1 - love and forgiveness from a loving, living God
2 - my kids
4 - my friends
5 - the arts and the creative spirit
6 - romance, affection, chocolate, dancing and walks in the rain
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I'd love to be a blessing to one woman. Secondly - how can I win you over each and every day. I'm in want to be your best friend.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If nothing else, I am never typical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'd rather snuggle with you on the couch after dinner than worry about the dishes. (Key word above is "willing to admit".)
You should message me if
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You truly want a (humbly speaking) nice guy who will listen to you. If you're looking for a bad boy to walk all over you, that wouldn't be me.