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41 San Francisco, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29–43
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 3
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, German (Okay), French (Poorly)
My self-summary
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all things in moderation, including moderation
What I’m doing with my life
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appreciating wind and water and playing with the border between them, trying to get the feeling of escaping gravity (this is kiteboarding) building and designing exhibits at an interactive science museum, appreciating friends and family. being a fun uncle. Throwing big bowls and mugs on a pottery wheel. getting addicted to surfing and starting to catch a bunch of waves.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
fixing things, making cheese fondue that people remember
The first things people usually notice about me
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The UFO that just dropped me off.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm a big fan of aural stimulation, hope you are too! in no particular order: Thee Oh Sees, Abbey Road, King of Limbs, Astral Weeks, Swordfishtrombone, Raindogs, Bon Iver, Velvet Underground, Alt-J, the Shins, Chopin, Life of Pi (the book mainly), Schuberth's 8th symphony, David Sedaris, the History of Nearly Everything, Team America, Upstream Color, Lers Ros, Una Pizza Napoletana, Reggie Watts, Louis CK, Tig Notaro
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
having great connections with people, learning new things, waves, wind, bicycles, dumplings, going to eleven
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how did we get so lucky? and how can we not mess it up?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Beating a public urination citation in court. OK, it was on Wednesday
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Id rather have a bottle in front if me than a frontal lobotomy.
You should message me if
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you are intensely interested in doing your thing, and sharing what is so inspiring to you about it. you look forward to some form of physical activity each day. you like excitement and awe over drama. You are into exploring, learning, appreciating the big and the small. I'm here more to relate and connect to women and see what happens from there naturally intead of some prescribed OK Cupid formula.