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61 • Portsmouth, VA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 58–62
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends
- Last online
- Aug 18, 2014
- 5′ 2″ (1.57m)
- Body type
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
- English (Fluently)
Oct 2013 Update: I've been away from online dating for a while. Truthfully, I was a little disappointed, but decided to give it another try. I do, however, want to let a few of you know one thing about me. It seems that life has thrown me a side effect about getting older. I have been told that I am insulin resistant, which makes it just a little harder to lose weight. Basically, I won't be a size 6 anymore. It's taken me a while to come to grips with that realization and I'm still working on it. But I still watch what I eat and I still exercise. So, I consider myself fit. But, it doesn't change who I am, which is a fantastic person, if I say so myself. Oh, wait! I just did. So, if I still have your interest, keep reading.
A little about myself … I am happy, responsible, secure, caring, loving, passionate, romantic, healthy, casual, easy going, emotionally balanced, non-judgmental and believe that the glass is half full. No drama, no games and minimal baggage. I have a good job, great family and a few great friends. I still believe and I am still hopeful that there is someone for everyone and that I, and he, will find each other as that someone. I believe that we are not meant to be solitary creatures and that we should have someone special to share our lives with and believe that we are much richer for it. I am not a serial dater, a manipulator, looking for a sugar daddy or here to play games.
I am looking for a man with whom there is a mutual attraction and respect. I would love to find someone who makes me smile at the prospect of spending time together. He must have good communication skills and be sincere in what he says. He should be honest, loyal, romantic, strong, stable, emotionally available, financially responsible, funny, comfortable to be with, spontaneous, and likes music. The type of man I am attracted to is usually a cuddly teddy bear, 6 feet and under, not too athletic or skinny, has a great smile, is affectionate and loves to hold hands and snuggle up together while watching a movie. He is intelligent and articulate and knows who he is and what he wants in life. He is physically and emotionally healthy. He is able to commit emotionally (has been married). He has been divorced or widowed for a minimum of two years – not separated – actually divorced. And he has friends and hobbies.
As we all know, there is more to us than what we can write here. If you have similar interests and desires and you're STILL reading my profile, then you really ought to connect with me. I’m always up for sharing a cup of coffee on a weekend morning.
1. My family
2. My friends
3. Air to breathe
4. Water to drink
5. My car
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