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choose2bhappy1

59 F Tulsa, OK

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 49–61
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 30
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 0″ (1.52m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Retired
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am going to start off just like every other profile. I am a mostly happy, healthy woman who loves life. What you see is what you get. I never play games or with hearts. I will always be truthful. Laughter comes easily and often. I want to know a man that enjoys sharing all the little and big experiences of life. I want to know a man who is there in happy times and trying times. I will never ask more of you then I am willing to give back to you. I turn 60 this year and I am ready to meet him and move on to living life with someone to hold hands with, fall asleep with, wake up with, make out with :) etc.

Now to what I want to say that may be different.
I have been on dating sites for way too many years. ( So have some of you. I keep seeing your faces and profiles day after day month after month and year after year!)
I have played the game of searching, messaging, talking on the phone, first meets all of it and I am so frustrated!!!
This is backwards to how it should be. If we were to meet someone through a friend, work, or out, we would know we clicked right away and conversation and getting to know one another would start from there.
When we meet someone through dating sites, the conversation, the getting to know one another starts before you ever know, if face to face, eye to eye you click. So you spend hours connecting with someone. We try to see through messaging if we would click or not. We may be able to figure out that we wouldn’t click with someone but we can never know if we do click until we meet.
After hours of messaging and talking we do one of two things. We either, get board and lose interested and the communication stops before we ever meet. For really no reason at all we just stop talking so we miss the opportunity of meeting. Or we really hit off when talking and messaging and we agree to meet with high hopes that we have finally found someone that we will feel comfortable with someone to enjoy life with. We meet and both or one of us feel no connection at all. We walk away from the meet wondering how we could have not known after all those hours of talking that we would not click enough to want even a second date.
I am tired of all the talking that amounts to nothing until you meet. If you view my pics and profile and you feel the tug that says “I want to know more about this woman” I want you to message me. When you do you be ready to meet me. I am no longer going to spend hours typing and talking before we meet. I am not a desperate, unhappy, lonely woman. I am just a woman who is tired of wasting time.
There is one more thing.
I am not rich by any means, I live comfortably working part time, but I have a hard time getting around a 50 or 60 year old man needing to borrow money for whatever reason. If you can’t buy me a drink today because payday is tomorrow, we have a problem.
People say that love will happen when you are not expecting it to, when you’re not looking. So I am trying not to expect anything but put myself out there. I am trying not to look but keep my eyes open. Grins
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm trying to enjoy everyday be it sunny-rainy, happy-sad, being held or being lonely. I am going to do HAPPY with my life
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting things done. That sounds strange. I am ok at a lot of things but couldn't think of anything I am really good at
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile and my eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like many books, movies,shows, all kinds of music and most all food. I am not afraid to try new likes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family, a love for life, laughter, people, music, dancing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My grand babies, my health, my feelings, my friends, my house, my day, my desires. If I am ever going to finish this profile {smiles}
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out dancing, enjoying friends and meeting people.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I cry at sad movies. I have to hold my nose when I swim. I can't sing.
You should message me if
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You enjoy sunsets, sunrises, the ocean, the full moon, quiet times, noisey times, rainy days, sunny days, dancing, concerts, new places, new faces, travel, eating out, eating in, laughing,hugging, kissing, and most important if you have a love for this amazing thing called life.