Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Liberal non-religious sapiophile who voted for Obama twice. If you
haven't run away screaming yet, keep reading. ;-)
I'm a 50-year-old music professor, choral conductor, voice teacher,
professional choral/opera singer, jazz trumpeter and pianist,
composer. I'm a warm, caring, and passionate man, divorced for
about three years. I want to be able to give love, warmth, and
affection to my partner in a relationship...and I want someone who
cares about me just the way I am without trying to change me into
someone I'm not.
I enjoy dining out, live music and theater, long walks and intimate
conversations where we explore each other's minds and souls. I'm a
bit of an introvert but am very social and enjoy being around
people. I am reserved at first but can be quite outgoing with
people I'm comfortable around.
Smart is sexy! I'm attracted to women who are intelligent and not
afraid to show it. If your profile doesn't contain complete
sentences, I probably won't be interested. Sorry. :(
I'm not your typical macho he-man who needs to be the head of
everything...but I'm not a doormat either. I'm looking for someone
with whom I can be an equal partner, with mutual respect and
Sex isn't the most important thing in a relationship, but it is
important. Sexual compatibility is important, once we get to that
point. I'm not looking for a "hookup"...that is quite frankly easy
to find if that's all I wanted. I'm looking for someone with whom I
can form a relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Music is more than my job...it's an integral part of my psyche. If
classical music bores you to tears, pass me by for your own sake,
because you won't be a happy camper for very long.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Music, listening and being empathetic to other people.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My shiny bald head. ;)
Reserved but witty, intellectual, fun-loving, warm, caring.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: sci-fi...love alternate history like Harry Turtledove. Also
enjoy historical books about WWII
Movies: classic epics like Ben-Hur, sci-fi. Love Monty
Shows: NCIS, Pawn Stars, anything on the Hitler Channel (aka the
Music: Classical, jazz, blues, classic rock. DESPISE hip-hop. If
you're a hip-hop or rap fanatic, pass on by. Can deal with country
in VERY small doses...fun to dance to, annoying to listen to for
Food: Just about anything! I enjoy eating out as well as cooking.
Chinese, Indian, Thai, barbecue, Vietnamese, German...all good!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My son (almost 21)...he doesn't live with me, so I cherish every
moment with him
3. Barbecue ribs...the delight that keeps me from being a
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, feelings, wants, desires
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either hanging out with my son, chilling at home by myself with a
beer or glass of wine, or doing something with friends. I sometimes
go to the local karaoke bar and sing Sinatra.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Not in a public forum. I'll tell you lots of private things once we
get to know each other. :)
You should message me if
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You're interested in chatting and finding out more about each
other! I love meeting new people and making new friends, even if
we're not romantically suited for each other.
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