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59 M Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:24am
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type

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My self-summary
Warm, decent guy. Life is an abundant experience for me. I most like good conversations of depth on a wide variety of topics. An arts hound (but not required of others). I listen to a lot of music (classical piano and mid-century vocalists), frequently attend performing arts (work as a publicist in that field), read printed newspapers (two of them); wear Brooks Brothers shirts with Lands End khakis, real 501s, or plaid shorts. I have a pair of double h's, and use too many parentheses (yes, that was intentionally random). Prius driver. My thoughts don’t fit into tweets and I only use facebook as an elaborate Rolodex, especially to find coordinates of people I’ve lost. I am mindful to be kind of myself, kind to others, and kind of waiters.
What I’m doing with my life
I own a small company that provides publicity services to theatre, dance, circuses (real and sometimes imagined), opera, classical music, a movie theatre, theme parks, and have worked on three shows with body parts (two female, one male) in their titles.
I’m really good at
Finding something funny about just about everything.
The first things people usually notice about me
My ties, if I am wearing one (Gene Meyer or Ted Baker, anyone?)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Duke Ellington, Rachmaninoff Third Piano Concerto (I just heard Yuja Wang play this with Dudamel, OMG!), Dumbo, A Star is Born (1954), My Fair Lady, Gigi, Vladimir Horowitz, Frank Sinatra, Dinah Washington, The King and I, Tony Bennett, Ray Charles, The Beatles, The Umbrellas of Cherbourg, A Chorus Line, Dreamgirls (the stage version), Field of Dreams, Chicago, Angels in America, Joe Turner’s Come and Gone, Clybourne Park, Family Evaluation (about Bowen family systems theory), Chinese, Indian, Baklava.
The six things I could never do without
The Beatles on any physical disc (CD, LP, 45)
The New York Times
My laptop and my i-phone
I just gave up caffeine so now I drink Root Beer, a strange choice for an adult.
CD Boxed Sets, Coffee Table Books
My best friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to get through today, and come up smiling at the end.
On a typical Friday night I am
At my men's group, followed by dinner and frozen yogurt, which I had to stop eating when I develop lactose intolerance. Ouch!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My alter ego and his friends. If you get to know me, I will explain.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 45–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
you are able to meet for coffee and see where it goes.