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32 M Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Straight women only
  • Ages 25–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 4
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Latin (Okay), Greek (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Classic film, museums, old brownstones, people watching, fine dining, good beer, or fine scotch can make a great day. Not all of them together. Or, perhaps all of them together?

I'm a bit of a nerd, I love ideas and really getting into things and I don't care that might be different from other people. I have a soft spot for T.S. Eliot, W.H. Auden, Hemingway, and Shakespeare. I'm a tenor and my favorite pieces to sing or listen to are choral works, especially 19th-early 20th century.

Since I moved to Greenpoint recently I have come to love Brooklyn, but I know Manhattan up and down. Originally from on Long Island, I lived in Europe for a few years. Fun fact: I lived in C.S. Lewis' house for a year when I lived in England. No joke. As a student I was able to become an estate caretaker part-time, and I also got to live there. I have pictures.

I worked for a while on a PhD in Philosophy, but have been also involved in technology since I was in sixth grade when I taught myself to program computers. I am now a software engineer at a major tech company in the city. And I still attend philosophy conferences for fun. (Why not?)

I'm looking to meet someone sassy and smart. I like having real conversations about interesting things, but I know how to have a lot of fun and I have a good sense of humor.
What I’m doing with my life
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My interests bridge technology and the humanities. In my daily work I work closely with artists and technologists to bring designs into a reality of products that can be used by real people. I've always been interested in media and how digital interaction can be humanized and made intuitive. I really enjoy what I do for a living so I'm pretty grateful to have that opportunity.

Being in technology I'm lucky to work in a really exciting field. I have a very good work-life balance and my work involves a lot of creativity. In my personal life I love music, art, and theater. In my spare time, I'm building a website that helps people connect by sharing quotations and ideas.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Music, computers, and finding just the right bar for a fun night out. People have been known to come to me when they need a new restaurant or bar to go to, hidden away in the depths of the Village or Brooklyn. I know a lot of places!
The first things people usually notice about me
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Apparently I have very long eyelashes. Almost everyone who has known me says that to me somewhere along the line so it must be true. But I think that's funny.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Mad Men. Boardwalk Empire. The Big Bang Theory. Downton Abbey.

Dylan. The Beatles. Paul Simon.

Wes Anderson. Moonrise Kingdom, Rushmore.

Whit Stillman. Metropolitan, Barcelona, Last Days of Disco.

Woody Allen. Crimes and Misdemeanors, Manhattan, Annie Hall.

This American Life. NPR.

The Great Gatsby. The Seven Storey Mountain. Casablanca. Brideshead Revisited. To Serve Them All My Days. The End of the Affair. Into Great Silence. The Godfather. On the Waterfront.

The Shawshank Redemption. Billy Joel. Man on Wire. Calvin and Hobbes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- Weekend brunch
- Choral music
- Good espresso drinks
- Alone time where I tinker and create stuff
- Netflix
- Lincoln Center
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where to find fancy cocktails in the City.
Mad Men - fantastic series.
Scaling web applications.
19th century British choral music.
Woody Allen's film legacy.
Comparative religion.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Exploring a new, off the beaten track watering hole. Or, extended night hours at the Met Museum. Or, watching a great new film with a friend.
You should message me if
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You like city living. You're open minded to someone who is politically liberal, and for religious reasons (ask me). However you don't have to be either of these things.

I'd love to know your Myers-Briggs type! I'm kind of fascinated by it these days: But who's to say what it means?