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36 / M / Straight / Married
New York, New York
His journal posts
Apr 5, 2010
A female friend of mine recently said to me, "I signed up for Match.com and I was flooded with hundreds of messages from old men who didn't even read my profile."
My friend wishes to remain anonymous. Which stinks, because Rudder and I are working on an OkTrends blog post all about why paying for online dating creates an imbalance, and we'd love to quote someone reporting this kind of experience.
So, if (1) you're female, (2) you've used a pay dating site and had an experience like that, (3) you have nice, clear pictures on OkC, and (4) you wouldn't mind us quoting you and showing your photo on the blog, you can post a comment like my friend's below.
My friend's quote is kind of the ideal for the story, so the closer your quote is to it - while remaining true of course - the more likely we'll select it.
p.s. Comment on the journal. Don't message me on the site...and thanks!