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42 Sunnyvale, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 23
Asian, Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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i have let my subscription lapse. if you would like to talk to me then please message me. I wont see likes

How does one summarize the entirety of a personality and experience?

Rhetorical questions aside...

This man is fairly straightforward on what he does and doesn't do. I have no desire to mess around with couching and overt sugar coating. If i can't actually have a civil and honest conversation, there really isn't much of a point is there?

I'm a walking set of contradictions: optimist and pessimist at the same time. Believe the universe has a perverse sense of humor and the universe has no controller. It just 'happens'. Welcome to the wonderful world of happy accidents.
I am a fairly giving person but i am fairly distrustful of many people. My Cynicism being what it is and how it developed. On the flip side of that i like to think people will show the better side of humanity even though i keep my expectations very low.
If you expect nothing, you'll never be disappointed.
I can also be a very selfish person when the mood strikes but that gets mitigated by my keeping the other person's feelings in mind.

Most to all of what i do has one effort level: 100%
I do very little half way.
That has no bearing on some day to day stuff. I have my lazy streaks just like everyone else.

I'm an IT guy. I get paid for my hobby. If i need to elaborate feel free to ask. I think that should be fairly self explanatory though. Just be prepared. =D

If you are around me, you don't get to be one of those people who incessantly gives the answers of "I don't care", "Whatever" and/or "I don't know" when asked a question about things like where to go out to eat, etc. Then complain about the choice made. I asked you the question because I wanted to know what you'd like to do. Not because i wanted to release hot air into the atmosphere and disturb air molecules with sound waves. If you aren't going to make up your mind I'm going to do it for you. Unless the situation is a very complex one, i will not spend a bunch of time agonizing over it. Decision gets made from information set I currently possess. This does not mean that given new/more information/evidence means i wont change my mind.

I really don't waste a bunch of time on overt processing with social situations, which is why I often refer to myself as a 'social idiot'. My straightforward nature tends to make some uncomfortable. As someone recently reminded me, "You should be playing chess not checkers". This makes me tired. I don't feel like I should have to put forth that much effort. Its mental work enough dealing with your own decision tree without having to tack on everybody else's. Besides, that just starts to wander into the realm of manipulation and I'm not into that.

I game.
Yes i play video games. I haven't done consoles since the Super Nintendo. Did I show my age on that one?
Back to an old friend of mine recently: World of Warcraft. I raid a couple of nights a week and i enjoy the folks I hang with in game.
Another favorite of mine is the Deus Ex series. If you know it, I guarantee you will get a good conversation out of me about it.

you have questions?: ask away!
If you actually read through this wall of text and aren't comatose. congrats!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Work, eat, sleep, game and ride the bike. =)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
thinking on my feet
various tech
inappropriate jokes
The first things people usually notice about me
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vocabulary, energy level and how much i talk.
And the hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: Piers Anthony, Margaret Weis/Tracy Hickman - Respectively - Xanth series, Incarnations of Immortality and Bio of a Space Tyrant
Dragonlance series
Others: Dune and Narnia
Movies: Paint Your Wagon, The Corruptor, Transformers: The Movie. (i also have a thing for Hong Kong Cinema)
music: heavy metal, death metal, speed metal, hard rock, classical, 70's pop, 70's R&B, some more "mellow" items.
Lets see if this gives the idea on the range of music tastes: (if you are sensitive to various wording.. DON'T listen to these first two)
Lets start with the metal side -

now for the mellow stuff -

food: meat, potatos, fungus and things that i think are good!
generally speaking: chinese, italian and mexican are favs. doesnt stop me from others
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
good conversation
mental exercise
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
decision trees, big picture, introspection, songs, silliness, fun, travel, tech, and new and exciting ways to wake people up from mental complacency as i go about my day.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
depends -
alone: i am sitting at home enjoying beer or wine and playing video games.

with someone: hanging out around the house watching a movie, etc.
going out someplace and seeing a show, seeing some sight.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
well that wouldn't be much fun to just bust out now would it? ;)
You should message me if
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you actually find something interesting in the above. =)

On a related note: Women of OKCupid - if you like my profile, great!
If you are going to like my profile, then I check out your profile and I like what I see and message you... and you don't respond? *facepalm*
Have a bit more courage than that please.

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