Rewriting this thing. Getting new pictures. Looking for someone that is mature enough to not want to change me and vice versa.
What I’m doing with my life
Traveling the country asking, "Can you hear me now?" Making photos for both pleasure and hire when it comes into my life. Trying to be more honest with myself so I can be more honest with you.
I’m really good at
Love love making great food. Anywhere you apply commas may be true. I hope you have a sense of humor about what I just wrote.
The first things people usually notice about me
Impossible to answer, but I often get that I look 10 years younger than I am...good genes I guess...and not important yet it happens too often.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Constantly starting and not finishing books. I love the public library.
I use to work in the film biz and was way too seriously critical. Now, I'm enjoying good films, still particular to a certain degree.
Radiohead, Rolling Stones, Built to Spill, Caetano Veloso, Bebel Gilberto, The Kinks, old Metallica, 1st wave, 2nd wave, Die Antwoord, Spoon. I love the XMU station on Sirius. More from all sources that brighten my mind.
Trying out a heavy veggie fruit thing to see how it goes. I gotta leave room for fun.
Neil DeGrasse Tyson, Carl Sagan, Marc Maron, Louis CK, George Carlin, Maria Bamford, The Moth, This American Life...
The six things I could never do without
my family and friends
water for both drinking and swimming in
I could easily live without iphones & clocks, but they come in
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The immense amount of energy in the universe at any given point and that we are actually made of stardust from exploding suns. I'm an amateur science geek. Other little things in life. I was raised catholic so I work a lot on being non-judgemental (always a recovering catholic).
On a typical Friday night I am
Right now, working. Sometimes relaxing, sometimes live music and
drinks, catching a movie at one of the great second-run theaters in
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm partially colorblind and I spent 10 years as a cinematographer hiding it. Ask me about it if we hang out.
You should message me if
You are open, kind, and can laugh at yourself, and at, with, near, and around me. You prefer to laugh and learn from mistakes in life rather than dwell. I don't necessarily need to meet someone with the same interests as myself, but we should definitely spark one another's curiousity.
Please don't be someone who has defined themselves by what they dislike about the world. I have dislikes and I want to hear yours, but I don't want to establish a relationship on negative attitudes.
Although the reality of it all is very complicated, I need someone who can communicate in a mature way. It's a must, but I know it won't be perfect. If you want to try, then I'm interested.
I'm really curious about how other men my age represent themselves on OKC. I don't get to see them. I'd be happy to share the same for women. This whole thing is fantastically crazy!
I hate how first dates feel like interviews on this site. If you feel we could make it simply nice, I'm interested.
So do it. Send me a message