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45 New York, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35-49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 9:41am
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Average build
Post grad
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats
English, French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I am a "doer" not content to sit on the sidelines while life goes on around me, although, I do enjoy sitting on the couch with a nice glass of wine reflecting on things, life, whatnot...

I have lots of hobbies (poker, golf, and playing guitar come to mind). Music is one of my greatest passions. I used to sing in a couple of rock bands and managed an indie record store in college. Let's play "name that tune"!
What I’m doing with my life
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I love to travel near and far (Hawaii, Austalia, Ireland, and Italy are a few favorites) and spend a lot of my free time doing that...and going to concerts, wine tastings, movies, theatre, art exhibits, and long walks around the city. I love to try new restaurants, particularly small ones tucked away in the East Village or LES.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making others feel comfortable in any situation. I am warm, caring, and very friendly...oh and sometimes sarcastic when the situation calls for it. I've been told I can make the perfect restaurant recommendation for any occasion. Let me know if you need one.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am very expressive and smile a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Radiohead, The Smiths, The Cure, Arcade Fire, Metric, The National, Charlotte Gainsbourg, Pink Floyd, Rush, and about a zillion other bands.

Books: Youth In Revolt, Straight Man, The Corrections, Mysteries of Pittsburgh, London Fields (Franzen, Chabon, M. Amis = geniuses)

Movies: Cinema Paradiso, The Dreamers, Last Days of Disco, 16 Candles, Bitter Moon, Pink Floyd: The Wall, Manhattan.

Food: Thai, Indian, Sushi, Italian, Mexican, Middle Eastern...basically, anything good and bonus points for spicy food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Fresh air, water, good friends, sex, coffee, and my iPod...not necessarily in that order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
lately...why my cat (Yogi Berra) loves to wake me up by sticking his paws in my face. He's lucky he's adorable.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out having dinner with friends or at a concert of some obscure indie band.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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What you see is what you get. Ask me anything and you'll get an honest answer.
You should message me if
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you are confident, playful, sexy, and smart.