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christianpaul

32 / M / Gay / Single

New York, New York

His Details

Last Online
Today – 4:34am
Ethnicity
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Speaks
English, Hungarian

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My self-summary
comes the dawn by Veronica Shoffstaff -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- after a while you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul, and you learn that love doesn't mean leaning and company doesn't mean security, And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts and presents aren't promises, And you begin to accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes open, with the grace of wisdom, not the grief of a child. And you learn to build all your roads on today because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain, and futures have a way of falling down in mid-flight. After a while, you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much. So, you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers. And you learn that you really can endure, that you really are strong. And you really do have worth. And you learn and learn, with every good-bye you learn. _________________________________________________________ My life is a whirl of constant change. This poem given to me by my mother years ago has come closer and closer to describing me. As we change we learn and grow and no matter what society thinks or believes you should be; you are you... and I am I. Through out childhood we are taught that we are great and the world is our play ground. We are invincible! Ha, how true was it when 2+2 equaled 4. Now today in a world where 2+2 could equal 6 or 3 or 6 and 3... does it still apply? I believe true success is based on individuality. By becoming the best me I can I hope to affect the world in a small insignificant yet astounding way. I used to think I had to move mountains but more and more I realize that my 'garden' only has to change a smile on the face of a child to make the whole world alittle bit better!
*thanks for helping me find the author of the poem above!
What I’m doing with my life
My job? I own a very small marketing firm working mostly in the Beauty world. I also donate a third of the year to a nonprofit to help produce a human rights conference in Oslo.

My love? I'm a hopeless romantic but have only opened up to two people. Both ended in not the best of ways so good luck there ;-)

My life? Most of my friends live elsewhere. I've lived in 26 cities, NYC for 5 years now. Travel is a huge part of my life. Other than that I love live music and am a member of the MOMA. I still think I'm an artist trapped inside a talentless body so I must enjoy the great works of others.
I’m really good at
Cooking, smiling, and sadly my job...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Atlas Shrugged, The God Delusion, The Virtues of Selfishness, Intellectuals and Society, The Historian
Movies: Anything comic book based, Stay, and Musicals
Music: anything live... have tickets to Florence and the Machine in Vegas and Jay Brannen's CD release party... oh and also anything Country
Food: Anything
The six things I could never do without
Family, Love, Good Friends, Good Wine, Redbull, Travel
On a typical Friday night I am
Curled up on my couch watching TV...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've always considered myself low maintenance but this site is teaching me some is required... I do require knowing you think about me once in awhile(text, call, smoke signal). Also since I travel a lot I do require seeing you when we are in the same city even if its just for a bit!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 28–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Just want a nice boy to settle down with!
Also if you've looked at my profile more than twice you should message me... I see you out there!