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49 Asheville, NC Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29–54
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 6:47am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Has kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am a carnal animal. I live in a society which espouses self above the whole, and function well enough here, having learned comfortable self-reliance, but I aspire to a life more integral with those around me and the world.
What I’m doing with my life
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I love to walk and bicycle and swim and dance.
I have a freshly-five-year-old boy, a couple cats, a small garden, new brakes. A wood floor business. A tendency to play the guitar like a percussion instrument.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Problem-solving, mathematics, work. I love physical labor.
Homemaking. Teaching, it turns out.
Pretty good in the kitchen.
The first things people usually notice about me
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tall and lanky
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Food, just about anything, love hot spicy food, so Thai, Indian, Mexican, sushi as a vehicle for wasabi (though I may be scared off sushi from now on because of Fukushima); by no means vegetarian, but my diet often resembles one's, eat salads, greens, beans and rice with most frequency.

Books, cinema, TV, love sci-fi, always have; teethed on Star Trek, first books I remember enjoying as an adolescent were Robert Heinlein; now don't have cable but like watching some shows on Netflix, been watching Dr Who, Breaking Bad, some others; the last movie I rented was Prometheus, a prequel to one of my favorite horror films of all time (another favorite genre); enjoy some college football, and NHL hockey during the playoffs (a little rabid about that).
Reading has been more utilitarian lately, but I read a lot on the internet, news and stuff.

Musical tastes are pretty open; historical favorites, Beatles, Pink Floyd, Grateful Dead, David Bowie; still love '60's and '70s rock, but Kishibashi blew my mind at Bele Chere this year, so I'm kind of a sponge for new experiences, while still loving old favorites.

Been really enjoying Kirtan and contra dancing lately.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
clean water, organically grown food (produce, dairy, well-cared for animals), rain, the love that resides in me, intellectual stimulation, sexual excitement (dyed-in-the-wool Scorpio in that regard)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
lately, how to cultivate loving, durable relations with Other, clear compassionate communication, how to see through the veil of separateness that drapes us and hold to the unity that underlies and connects us
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Not much into bars anymore, but I love taking in live music. Often enjoying solitude after a school week is done and my son's with his mom.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm pretty open about things and about myself with people I love, but there are some things reserved to Inner Sanctum...
You should message me if
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you're healthy, happy, and feel some kinship with what I present of myself here.