Fun thought of the day: I've Dommed, been a Dom, and had wildly beautiful women crawling to me and asking for my guidance or discipline and it had nothing to do with being a sex deviant or a jerk. It's fun sometimes and I've taught others, but it doesn't define me nor does it mean it's something I do to girls all the time, only when they're into it and want to try. I'm comfortable and open minded. Still, it's not what I want to be thought of as. It only happens when they're into it or curious and want to try. No, it's not sexist and if you think that then you know nothing about the bdsm scene and should stick to bad romance novels. It requires a lot of trust and a lot of communication.
Truth bomb: If you only notice a guy who treats you like garbage, acts like you're nothing and does their best to pretend they don't notice you; then you're not ready for a good guy.
Love yourself first
* Friend to all. Honest. Strong.
* My power animal is the Pug.
My name is Christian and I go by Chris. Long ago I chose to leave school early to help support my family for a few years during our rough patch and I've since willed myself to educate myself and explore what I can of the world. A few years as an outdoor science school teacher. I live a happy life in Austin and have met some good people. Never stop learning, never stop growing, but I'm grateful for my life and who and what I have.
The kind of person who likes puns, trees, football, good people, drinks and sunsets.
Our cat plays fetch, but I'm more of a dog person.
I've been a summer camp counselor and taught kids survival skills, while surviving kids.
So if you're new or old to Austin and looking to hang out after work, or make a new friend then don't be afraid to say hi.
* The warning is that I'm in a semi-open relationship with an awesome friend. She's become my best friend since I've moved here and we're both new to Austin. She dates other girls sometimes and I support her growth and she supports mine. We have standards but we are also big dorky people who talk to and befriend everyone. Yeah, we rock.
I'm an old silly soul who has grown to be equal parts introvert and extrovert and silliness aside, I know who and respect who I am, where I am and what I want.
Wouldn't change a thing.