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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 31-43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:39am
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Perpetual seeker. Penetrates my love of music and experience in general. I think years of growing up perusing record stores has rubbed off on other aspects of my life. Coming off a camping trip in Zion and embarking on scuba adventure in Mexico. Love traveling for pleasure, but mostly I'm somewhat of a homebody. Love my life in the Arts District. Weekends bring me outdoors: cycling, swimming and running are routine at this point. Evenings I'm often enjoying an IPA with a friend.

Music is still my primary hobby. I put down the upright bass years ago but it sits in the corner staring at me everyday. Dropped a fortune at Amoeba as a kid, now trumped by a $10 per month subscription to Spotify, a godsend to my bank account. Seriously, their archive is magnificent. Sure, my brother-in-law works for Spotify, but that was just dumb luck.

Started racing triathlons 8 years ago and it's become the "health" part of my life. Completed my second Ironman last August which was a pretty amazing experience. But I'm far from the typical triathlete. I don't count calories or have an IM tattoo. Triathlon is simply a vehicle to get outdoors, in the ocean, and on the road to offset an otherwise care free diet.

I am very happy with my career. I get to problem solve for a living. Work with great and inspiring people.

If you are into music, design, fitness and urban living then that's a good foundation for me. The rest is up to chemistry.
What I’m doing with my life
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Analyzing client needs for huge architecture/design company.
I’m really good at
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Listening. Armchair psychology. Excel, for those who want tips.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Blue eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Murakami, Bowles, Styron, Brian Greene, Marquez, Steinbeck

Movies: Blade Runner, Wall-E, Her, Lost in Translation, Grand Budapest Hotel, Seven

Shows: National, Radiohead, Nick Cave, Joe Henry, Charles Lloyd, Doves, TV on the Radio

Music: far too many to list here. Post-punk, jazz and indie rock mainly. New Order, the 4AD catalog of the 1980s and John Coltrane are foundations. Latest favorites are locals Autolux and pianist Brad Mehldau.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Smarter people
Looking for a number 6
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching a movie at home. Usually go cycling early on Sat mornings. Sat nights are out on the town for me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I spent the night in a janitorial closet at a restaurant on the Greek island of Santorini. Woke up to a big surprise.
You should message me if
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You love more than just laughing.