I highly value my friends and rely on them a lot for personal and intellectual stimulation. I'm looking for people who can hold intellectual conversations but who don't take themselves too seriously. I like having the option to delve into Conversations (ya know, not just conversations), but more often than not, I just shoot the shit. Fun and silliness are just as important as thoughtfulness.
I enjoy smiling, cuddling, and laughing and try to surround myself with people who make those activities possible. Compassionate love isn't something that should only be reserved for our nearest family and closest intimates; it's really something I wish were more a part of standard social deference, something one human being should have for all those around him/her...unless they're that jerk from the grocery store who always takes two parking spaces IN THE FRONT because his car's too nice. Really? If it's nice enough to take up two spaces, it's certainly too nice for your American flag and McCain Palin 2008 bumper stickers. Jackass.
Oh, also, the OKC name is not a commentary on body. It's the Russian name for a hairstyle I sometimes sport, CHOOB-chik.
I am inquisitive, nurturing, and enthusiastic