Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I love the diversity of people in the world, which is probably why
I'm trying to make a career out of talking about the strange things
our strange species does. Peoplewatching is a big past time, there
are some real characters out there.
I highly value my friends and rely on them a lot for personal and
intellectual stimulation. I'm looking for people who can hold
intellectual conversations but who don't take themselves too
seriously. I like having the option to delve into Conversations (ya
know, not just conversations), but more often than not, I just
shoot the shit. Fun and silliness are just as important as
I enjoy smiling, cuddling, and laughing and try to surround myself
with people who make those activities possible. Compassionate love
isn't something that should only be reserved for our nearest family
and closest intimates; it's really something I wish were more a
part of standard social deference, something one human being should
have for all those around him/her...unless they're that jerk from
the grocery store who always takes two parking spaces IN THE FRONT
because his car's too nice. Really? If it's nice enough to take up
two spaces, it's certainly too nice for your American flag and
McCain Palin 2008 bumper stickers. Jackass.
Oh, also, the OKC name is not a commentary on body. It's the
Russian name for a hairstyle I sometimes sport, CHOOB-chik.
I am inquisitive, nurturing, and enthusiastic
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
going to graduate school to get some letters after my name that
will prove that I have something interesting to say about stuff,
specifically music and culture. It ain't glamorous, but at the end
of the day, there's not much else I'd rather be doing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
arguing...no, no, wait - debating!...yeah, that's it.
sprucing up boxed mac'n'cheese
finding lost things (keys, remotes, grooves)
The first things people usually notice about me
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my laugh(s) or possibly my earring if they're standing to the left
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books: The Trouble with Normal, The Book of Lost Things, Music as
Social Life, Demian, Siddhartha, Naive. Super, Sophie's World, The
World According to Garp
movies: but i'm a cheerleader, the life of david gale, cirque du
soleil, children of men, the royal tennenbaums
music: all kinds, but some favorites include velvet underground,
nina simone, miriam makeba, france gale, simon and garfunkel,
kaiser's orchestra, woody guthrie, LCD soundsystem, mercedes sosa,
juan luis guierra, amiina, erik satie, edgar meyer, die ärtze, DDT,
deti picasso, joe venuti and stuff smith
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
sexuality (and sex...let's be honest here)
how my government can justify legislated discrimination in the 21st
whether or not gay rights are more important than queer revolution.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
probably drinking, laughing and with friends somewhere. otherwise,
you can find me at home in my pj's having a movie night with my
roommate. Both possibilities are sure to involve me dancing in some
way shape or form.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm probably a little more than partial to men with hair (facial,
body, etc), but that's certainly not a requirement.
You should message me if
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you are outgoing enough to do so, are interested in possibly making
a new friend and you can write something more substantive than
'what's up?' I love meeting new people but can be somewhat picky on
who becomes more than a friend or acquaintance.
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