45 Mesa, AZ
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My self-summary
Eventually, I hope to find the true romantic, the man who wants to spend time really getting to know each other. Walks, talks, cuddling, watching the stars. Someone who thinks that cliche walk on the beach with the right person sounds as amazing as I do. Making plans and keeping them...trips, adventures, time together, activities with the kids (if he has them) when it feels right. I'm not looking for perfect, just perfect for me.

I am a total sci-fi geek. I love to dress up in costumes, Star Wars, Star Trek, Stargate, Firefly, etc. I go to conventions for writers, readers, and sci-fi fans, Dragoncon is my yearly geek pilgrimage, others I go to as finances and work time off permits. I also attend the Renaissance fair at least once or twice a season.

I love to read, always have. I emptied out a ton of libraries growing up. Alan dean Foster, Chris Stasheff, Piers Anthony, David Eddings, Tolkien, and a multitude of others totally influenced me in my formative years. Last few years it been mainly paranormal romance (no, not Twilight!, lol) and I dress up as a character from one of my fave authors Sherrilyn Kenyon. I AM the Simi, lol.

I love all kinds of music except rap, but country is my favorite, weird for a scifi type chic I know, but there ya go. I love to dance mostly to country and some hip hop....

I am not an outdoors person in general but am open to low key hikes, or walks. Just no Olympic's about the company you keep while doing something, not necessarily the activity. I do not camp, hunt, or fish though...if these things are super important to you we will probably NOT be a match. There is only so much physical discomfort I can tolerate even in the best of company ;-). I ADORE horses and would love to ride, going to the batting cages, etc. In other words, something with a purpose, not just shuffling around in the dirt trudging up a mountain! LOL

I believe shared activities and interests are critical in a relationship though so I try to keep an open mind. I like to drink occasionally, dance, and watch movies. Especially while cuddled in bed. I am fun and outgoing, but also like quiet time at home... As far as type of movies... No horror!!, mainly romantic comedy, fantasy, some action, and of course super heroes ;-)

I Would love someone that shares my costuming interests, but since that seems to be a rarity, a geeky side is definitely a plus. Someone who isnt obsessed with the gym, or physical perfection...Someone who would rather go to a movie or stay in cuddling, or playing games...Now, all that said, I have noticed a few pounds adding on that I would like to ditch, as well as get back into working out more regularly, I've recently joined a gym and getting totally into a gym or activity partner that can be supportive and helpful but not overbearing or mean would be great!!

I do have a type im generally attracted to, taller guys, dark hair. Have had the occasional blonde exception but it's really pretty rare.

SORRY, never been attracted to black men or bald men, whether it's shaved by choice or not doesn't matter!!!

I'm here...hoping to find someone that I am attracted to, share interests with and that gives me butterflies when they kiss me. I am interested in a partnership...someone to come home, cook, clean and cuddle with. That person who makes you smile just thinking of them or when you get a random text. They have your back and you have theirs, no matter what. Not saying I want dull, I am a very flirtatious and fun girl who still likes to hit the loud music and have a couple drinks and dance until I can't breathe. I want my man to know its not only ok, but expected to toss me up against the wall for passionate kisses...
What I’m doing with my life
Getting my ducks in a row, dealing with the daily grind and working on getting ahead.
I’m really good at
Showing affection, being supportive, and some things I can't list here 😜
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Authors- David Eddings, Piers Anthony, Sherrilyn Kenyon and too many more to list.

Music- pretty much anything but rap, depends on my mood. Pop, dance music, 80's music for sure, country is one of my fun to dance to!

Movies and TV- too many favorites to name and can't choose just one 😀
Princess Bride
Better off dead
Star Wars
Star Trek
Marvel movies
Pitch perfect, 1 and 2 😀
Lord of the rings
Game of Thrones
Warehouse 13
Scifi/fantasy in general.....
The six things I could never do without
Affection (hugs, kisses, petting, cuddling)
My iPhone (sad, I know )
Rare steak
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Taking a real vacation....somewhere sandy and warm.
On a typical Friday night I am
In watching Netflix, Hulu or a good movie because I have to work in the morning. If no work then I might be out dancing, on a date, or in with someone special cuddling.
You should message me if
You share common interests or see yourself in my profile Likes.

No...I'm not here for a hook up and I don't do inappropriately aged too young men.