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cicicross

44 F Mesa, AZ

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 34–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:33pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Medicine
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Update 8/25/14
I am taking it easy for awhile due to a recent disappointment, so don't expect much in the way of replies right now.

Eventually, though I hope to find the true romantic, the man who wants to spend time really getting to know each other. Walks, talks, cuddling, watching the stars. Someone who thinks that cliche walk on the beach with the right person sounds as amazing as I do. Making plans and keeping them...trips, adventures, time together, activities with the kids (if he has them) when it feels right. I'm not looking for perfect, just perfect for me. But right now I need to heal...so be patient.

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I have been off and on here for years, various issues including men who were emotionally unavailable
Please, be at least considering a permanent relationship as a goal eventually, and have some kind of common interests before you message me? Also, if we go out and you don't want to see me again, please have the consideration to say so and don't just pull a fade. If the situation is reversed, I always tell someone it's not going to work...

I moved back to Mesa end of November 2011, I finally left Kansas after a year and a half of dealing with lying cheating men. I had moved there for reasons that are too complicated and personal to list here. Just say that I followed my heart and got burned for it. Apparently this is a trend....

I am a total sci-fi geek. I love to dress up in costumes, Star Wars, Star Trek, Stargate, Firefly, etc. I go to conventions for writers, readers, and sci-fi fans, Dragoncon is my yearly geek pilgrimage, others I go to as finances and work time off permits. I also attend the Renaissance fair at least once or twice a season.

I love to read, always have. I emptied out a ton of libraries growing up. Alan dean Foster, Chris Stasheff, Piers Anthony, David Eddings, Tolkien, and a multitude of others totally influenced me in my formative years. Last few years it been mainly paranormal romance (no, not Twilight!, lol) and I dress up as a character from one of my fave authors Sherrilyn Kenyon. I AM the Simi, lol.

I have worked a few different jobs in my life, from selling chicken (yay KFC, lol) to retail, then secretarial work. I was even a hotel maid for like 2 days....never ever picked up a check even, that is one horrible job! I was a jet engine mechanic in the Air Force, then a nail tech, before finally settling in to become a labor and delivery nurse 10 years ago.

I love all kinds of music except rap, but country is my favorite, weird for a scifi type chic I know, but there ya go. I love to dance mostly to country and some hip hop....

I am not an outdoors person in general but am open to low key hikes, or walks. Just no Olympic training...it's about the company you keep while doing something, not necessarily the activity. I do not camp, hunt, or fish though...if these things are super important to you we will probably NOT be a match. There is only so much physical discomfort I can tolerate even in the best of company ;-)
I believe shared activities and interests are critical in a relationship though so I try to keep an open mind. I like to drink occasionally, dance, and watch movies. Especially while cuddled in bed.

I do have a type im generally attracted to, taller guys, dark hair. Have had the occasional blonde exception but it's really pretty rare. Sorry, never been attracted to bald men or black men.

I have two daughters both older teens but I still have responsibilities, so between them and my crazy work hours, arranging meetings can be challenging but I'm definitely up for it, if it seems worth it...lol
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working at a local hospital delivering babies :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
delivering babies...I love my job, helping to bring babies into the world has to be the best job out there!

I've also been told I'm a great kisser. Which is a good thing I guess since I love to do it ;-)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair and my smile. I always get compliments about them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Sherrilyn Kenyons books, all her series, although the Dark Hunters are probably my favorite. David Eddings, Piers Anthony, Terry Brooks, Christopher Stasheff.

Country music my fave, but I love all kinds of music except rap.

Star Wars, Star Trek, (JJ Abrams reboot was amazing!), Stargate
The Princess Bride has to be one of the best movies ever made.
80's classics like Real Genius, Better Off Dead, Some Kind of Wonderful, etc

Current addictions include Game of Thrones, Grimm, Once Upon a Time.

Buffy, Angel, Dark Angel, Firefly, warehouse 13, Fringe....some of the best shows ever made and cancelled...

I am the world's pickiest eater but I am always happy with a good medium rare steak and some potatoes!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, family, friends, chocolate, books, computer, iPhone, and sex. Sorry had to add in more than six. I'm a bad girl...lol
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I am kind of all over the place, my mind goes 100 mph all the time so my thoughts are scattered amongst different subjects. But I guess most of them have to do with either work or having fun...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either working or trying to drag my friends out dancing...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am a spiritual but not religious person. I do not do organized religion and don't think I could have any type of long term personal relationship with anyone who is a strong believer in one of the major organized faiths, especially Christian based.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are into the same things I am, and want to hang out and be friends first....but please be serious about the possibility of a relationship.