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35 M Lexington, KY

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Last Online
Today – 6:55am
Body Type
Mostly anything
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Working on masters program
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Family is important to me. When I was growing up, I was around family so much that it never occurred to me to ask why I didn't have siblings, or where my father was. It wasn't until we drifted apart that I realized all I have is a mother.

Since I don't live in the same city as the rest of my family, I don't know the best way to get everyone together the way I remember us being when I was little.

I was raised by a single mother. I got a full undergraduate academic scholarship . Although I didn't attend, I was accepted to law school. I am currently pursuing a Master's degree and have interned for the federal government.
What I’m doing with my life
My internship in Washington, DC, for the federal government is now over. I am halfway to completing a Master's in Public Policy from the University of Kentucky.
I’m really good at
Something I can't tell you right off the bat, which is frustrating because if you knew, you'd be contacting me instead of the other way around.

Other things:
Keeping secrets. I once made out with a classmate after watching her smoke weed. I never told any of our classmates about either, as it appeared she didn't tell people she smoked.

Fantasizing about the baseball career I could have had if I learned how to play.

Realizing the musical career I could have had if I focused on playing instead of trying to get a real job.
The first things people usually notice about me
What was the first thing you noticed about me?

I know that people notice I'm not ugly, since I've been complimented on my appearance. You should probably stop reading my profile and start looking at my pictures.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I used to have a lot of stuff here.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How could you NOT be interested? Especially if you've seen me in a suit.

What's the deal with this hiding your profile after one email? I could see if I wrote something nasty, but not because I wrote something normal that shows I read your profile and have something interesting to say. At least try to interact with people if you're going to be on this site.

How there are guys with no charisma or personality with girlfriends. I'm not the ultimate party host or glad handing politician, but if you've ever been in a room with me, you at least know what my voice sounds like. What's worse is that such a guy is dating a girl I was once with, who wouldn't let me take it further.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
So before I answer, let me clarify to everyone that this question says "most private thing I'm *WILLING TO ADMIT*" This does not mean you have to write your most closely guarded secret. Just write something that you wouldn't normally reveal right away. The worst answer ever to this question is "that I'm on okcupid" because we can see that you're on here so it's not private. The second worst answer ever is "If I told you, it wouldn't be private." Pardon my french, but no shit.

So with that out of the way, the most private thing I am *WILLING TO ADMIT*

1. I was someone's first kiss.
2. I was someone else's first sexual partner.
3. I was told by another girl that I was the first guy who showed interest in her.

As far as I know, I've never been anyone's first boyfriend.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
-You think I'm out of your league.

-I'm the exact opposite of what you think you're attracted to.

-Your not hung up on spelling (intentional misspelling). I am a grad student who does a lot of writing, sends out a lot of resumes and cover letters, and I plan on working in a field where I do a lot of writing. I visit okcupid on my phone and use a swype keyboard that only predicts your. If your biggest concern is that your future mate can spell, your priorities, their not in the right place.(again, intentional)

- If you actually answer your phone and reply to your texts.

- If you either don't use profanity, or can make yourself not curse while you're talking to me.

-And you're reading this.