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cindersandrain

21 / M / gay / Single

Jacksonville, Florida

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Ethnicity
Native American, White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Swedish (Poorly)

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I am well-read, well-traveled, and well-prepared..

My Self-Summary

If anything is nearly impossible to find in Jacksonville, it's love. Not even Jacksonville, I've tried dating guys I'd have to travel hours to see. Still, it doesn't seem to work. What I want is simple, to have a relationship where both people put in equal effort, and I'm certainly looking for something that is as long-term as it can be. I want to find the person that makes a hard day worthwhile, who I can be eloquent and intelligent with. I don't believe that you have to have another person complete your life, that you can't live without a partner. But, it isn't pleasant to be alone. Conversation is the way to my heart. I love to know about people, their complexities, and eccentricities.

What I’m doing with my life

I work a pretty cool job, I present my work at a lot of local art shows and art walks and galleries. I have movie nights with friends, I'm trying to finish a novel. It's not going so well.

I’m really good at

Piano, photography, writing, politics, philosophy, history, humor.

The first things people usually notice about me

People usually say they noticed something about my personality, apparently I'm easy to read.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Alice in Wonderland, Dante's Inferno, Grimm's Fairy tales, Lolita, A Mencken Chrestomathy, American Gods, Good Omens, Dylan Thomas' Selected Poetry, Wayside School is Falling Down, Poems of Langston Hughes, The Graveyard Book ...(the rest are comics)... The Sandman Series, Watchmen, V for Vendetta, The Wormwood Series, Tank Girl, Comic Book Tattoo

Movies : Little Miss Sunshine, Amélie, The Fifth Element, Jesus is Magic, Watchmen, The Cell, The Royal Tenenbaums, Triplets of Belleville, The Woods, Machine Girl, Fight Club, Marie Antoinette, Ghost in the Shell, Beetlejuice, Tank Girl, Coraline, Sweeney Todd

Music : Anberlin, Andrew Bird, Ani DiFranco, Arctic Monkeys, Azure Ray, Bat for Lashes, Baumer, Billy Holiday, Bitter:Sweet, Björk, Black Box Recorder, Brand New, Brighten, Bruno Coulais, C64 Orchestra, Cake, Cat Power, Cibo Matto, Circa Survive, Cursive, The Dandy Warhols, The Darkness, Death by Chocolate, Death Cab for Cutie, Deftones, Depeche Mode, DJ Danger Mouse, Driver Side Impact, Dustin O'Halloran, Elliot Smith, Emarosa, Emilie Simon, Etta James, Feist, Firewater, Frank Sinatra, Franz Ferdinand, Gingerbread Patriots, Gorillaz, Hellogoodbye, Idiot Pilot, Interpol, Iron and Wine, K's Choice, Kate Nash, Kay Kay & His Weathered Underground, Keane, Kerli, Kill Hannah, La Roux, Lady GaGa, Last Winter, Le Tigre, Lily Allen, Lykke Li, M.I.A., Mae, Mason Proper, Mazzy Star, Melora Creager, Metro Station, Mirah, My Brightest Diamond, No Doubt, The Notwist, Nurses, Of Montreal, Orenda Fink, Portishead, Postal Service, Radiohead, Rasputina, Rediscover, The Ruby Suns, Secret & Whisper, Spiral Beach, St. Vincent, The Strokes, Sufjan Stevens, Team Sleep, Tilly and the Wall, Tom Waits, Tori Amos, Yan Tiersen, Yeah Yeah Yeahs

Food : I'm diverse with this. I really like things I haven't tried.

The six things I could never do without

Let's assume that air, water, etc. are already provided for.

1. Music.

2. The potential for great romance.

3. I can't do without making artwork, playing piano, etc. An outlet is required.

4. Physical touch, when in a relationship, I become affectionate.

5. I think I need friends, a social life. I'm not sure if I'd go insane without it though. I think if I were on an island with a partner, I'd be fine.

6. I'd probably want some form of physical satisfaction, were I to be stranded on an island. I mean, I've spent most of my life being entirely celibate outside of relationships, because I've been saving it, or whatever. So it would be kind of lame to be stranded without even that.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Spirituality, science, metaphysics, psychology, I like swimming in questions unanswered. Debating something that may not even exist isn't pointless.

On a typical Friday night I am

I probably just got off work, and am hanging out with friends, or reading, or bored.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I don't have a lot of private things, and I definitely don't have secrets. I know everyone is supposed to, but I find them to be boring. Oh, I know. When I was little, I had terrible taste. I'm talking Hanson and Alanis Morissette and Pokemon cartoons.

You should message me if

If you have a keyboard.