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cinephile23

34 F Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 3
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 0″ (1.52m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Education
Income
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I'm a playful intellectual. I love discussing ideas and creating new ideas with other people. I think intellectualism is sexy. I'm also compassionate and caring; demanding and opinionated. I love combining opposites, defying stereotypes, and pushing beyond the boundaries of what I think is possible. Though doing that is not necessarily easy. It requires doing when I don't know what I'm doing and even if I'm scared. I like trying new things and thinking outside the box.

Right now I'm transitioning out of a successful career in academia and figuring out what I'm doing with my life from here.

Other stuff about me:

Getting my Master's in Cinema and Media Studies.

I was born and raised in Brooklyn.
What I’m doing with my life
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Tutoring writing and English to undergraduates with disabilities; working at my first real office job and trying to have a good attitude about it; house managing at a non-profit theater; getting interested in digital photography; writing- might want to be a freelance writer one day; figuring out creative ways to make a career out of a degree in film studies.
I’m really good at
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Analyzing texts- written or cinematic, cooking, writing, other stuff that I can't think of at the moment.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't know. People don't usually tell me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I mostly read academic stuff related to my grad school program: Foucault, Derrida, Deleuze and Guattari. Plus a bunch of well-known (in the Academy at least) media scholars. I'm really into feminist theory and ranting about postfeminism and neoliberalism.
Reading, for me, has become associated with a work activity, and I've forgotten that people can do that as leisure activity. As such in my free time, I watch a fair amount of quality tv and Independent/ foreign cinema.

Lately, getting into House of Cards. I'm not usually into political dramas. But this one is like Shakespeare on television. Also, Breaking Bad, Dexter, True Blood, United States of Tara, In Treatment. Also, Battlestar Galatica (2000s version, not the 70s camp), Six Feet Under.

I tend to prefer alternative music (Fiona Apple, Alanis Morissette) and vegetarian food (homemade, Indian, Chinese, Thai). I like using new and unfamiliar ingredients. Fiddlehead ferns are fun to say and to eat. I also like baking with whole ingredients (teff flour, maple syrup, coconut oil).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends,
something interesting to watch on TV,
a yummy dessert,
a healthy body,
a job that request me to think,
and a liveable wage.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The mess that we've created in the world and how we can change that in small ways. How do we create radical democracy? Easier said than done. Having a world where people of all different opinions, even different than my own, can live.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Tired. So I food shop to relax, watch some cools shows, or talk to people I care about.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like drinking water that is warm (Yes, I'm serious about that.)
You should message me if
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Having a sexual relationship based on friendship is appealing to you.