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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–49
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Sep 2
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from space camp
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs
English, Chinese (Okay), Spanish (Okay), French (Okay), Other (Fluently)
My self-summary
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A big fan of what I call the 'milkshake' date. That is 2 people meet and go for a milkshake. Dangle their feet and discuss whatever it is.. 2 strangers. I enjoy that.

A bit about me: Tdot, Mtl, Vic, Ott, SF, Cam, NY, HK, Ko Sam, Ber, Val - I dropped out of a formal education to explore the world up close, living in the cities above, working online or hustling pickup gigs. Taking buses and trains through other parts of the world. Miss that adventurous time. somehow it turned out alright.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My day job right now is at a consultancy, doing creativey technology 'things'. Making 'things' happen and making 'things' period is profession, hobby, muse, mistress, monastery, you get the idea.

I simply love the age we are living in.

Please enjoy this appended list of things you will either like or not like: coffee-propelled 'thought experiments', delorean cars, independent cinema, jazz music, kiva, house-building, finding good food in nooks of the city, how technology can solve big problems, milkshakes, mostly non-fiction things and simply being alive. Distilling what is important, learning to enjoy what is important...

Logistics Update: Right now I'm travelling for the summer quite a bit. In Seattle half the week... sometime SF, get home to NY always too. I come with lots of tiny shampoo bottles, towels and peanuts. Coming to a coffee-loving city near you.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Getting along with your kids and animals for whatever reason.
-Naming the painting
-Tennis serve out wide with a follow-up drop shot
-Part soggy / Part sloppy joke deliveries
-Good dinners
-Being a gentleman
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
An opener of Pandora's box of wonder.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I really love old things from all different places, the sepia past let it be noted.

Here is my own Ok litmus test. 98% accurate. Do you like foreign films and/or philosophy? If you like both, then we get along :)... If you like neither, then we will not get along. :(

Where we end up as a society is important. Politically, I'm mostly a market-oriented leftist (like many dotcom people) and usually have a developed pov which can feel like invading a french beach, when it comes time to debating these things, but yeah.

Some random duke ellington, woody allen, nick drake, flamenco music, the knife, billie holiday, helen forrest a WWII singer. the economist magazine, A short-lived band from Montreal called land of talk, van gogh, south park, film techniques, jorge benjor, rachmaninoff, dirty projectors, david byrne, miles+trane,
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Starred Spotify Playlists
2. Time to play ukulele at work
3. Chess set
4. Horchata
5. My brief correspondence with kurt vonnegut jr. (sent in response to sending him a counterfeit nobel prize). He wrote up on an absolute vodka postcard.
6. Cappuccino or Americano at 4pm
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-Why this subway train.
-Spanish, French, Javascript, Ruby, Python, C blah.
-Moving back to Berlin
-The book I want to write about chinatown... what happens in it...
-How to exit the subway
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Getting into town.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm changing this one :)
You should message me if
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you want a male friend and we have something in common, books/tennis/art films/music *up to / including* tada the pure friend zone... (I make a fun platonic date). You love artwork, not just in galleries. You jam with INTJ/INTPs. you are real. you speak a lovely language. You are a little crazy but not yet dangerous