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37 New York, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–49
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 19
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from space camp
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs
English, Chinese (Okay), Spanish (Okay), French (Okay), Other (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Tdot, Mtl, Vic, Ott, SF, Cam, NY, HK, Ko Sam, Ber, Val - I dropped out of a formal education to explore the world up close, taking buses across the u.s. renting rooms until the money ran out. Miss that time. somehow it turned out alright.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a musician turned financier + product designer

My day job is at a record label, dealing with the tech/creative side of the business, with a past in media/advertising.

I f* love science, everyone in my family is a scientist, but I live for art - a decision which I felt guilty about for a number of years...

Now I want to make much more of it [or try]. I am hoping to transition my way into a semi-retired way of life / full-time creative one spent writing/drafting and making.

These days - tennis, coffee-propelled 'thought experiments', playing a weekly jazz gig in the village, funding a 27th loan on kiva, book-worming and simply being alive, distilling what is important, learning to enjoy what is important...

i tend to be an insatiable self-learner/self-improver and spend my hobby time, picking up new things... My needs once complex are drifting towards simplicity, ever so simple: reading, walking, creative 'iteration', discovery and experimentation.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Home is a tangle of musical instruments and can play them.
-Rolling down a hill
-Part soggy / Part sloppy joke deliveries
-(a new one) being an awesome landlord / handyman
The first things people usually notice about me
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An opener of Pandora's box of wonder.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I really love old things from all different places, cultures. Old books, histories, machines, clothing, bios, fossils, pictures anything.

The 95% litmus test i find is interest in foreign films and philosophy. If you like both, then we have similar tastes :)...

Some random duke ellington, woody allen, nick drake, flamenco music, the knife, billie holiday, helen forrest the singer who preceded billie in Artie Shaw's big band. A band (not big) from Montreal called land of talk, van gogh, south park, film techniques, jorge ben, rachmaninoff, dirty projectors, david byrne, miles+trane,
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Starred Spotify Playlists
2. Time to play ukulele at work
3. Chess set
4. Postcard from kurt vonnegut (sent in response to sending him a counterfeit nobel prize)
5. Cappuccino or Americano at 4pm
6. Up for grabs
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-Why this subway train.
-Spanish, French, Javascript, Ruby
-Moving back to Berlin
-The book I want to write about chinatown... what happens in it...
-How to exit the subway
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Checking out open houses while plotting escape.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Much more curious about connecting with interesting people in this city than having the kind of romantic entanglements that tend to end in broken dishes/people/lightbulbs. The former is the best. The later is always nice, but not actively sought.
You should message me if
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you want a male friend and we have something in common, books/tennis/art films/music *up to / including* tada the pure friend zone... (I make a fun platonic date). You love artwork, not just in galleries. You jam with INTJ/INTPs. you are real. you speak a lovely language. You are a little crazy (already).