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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23-49
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

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Last online
Today – 3:33am
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Atheism and laughing about it
English, Chinese (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat), French (Somewhat), Other (Fluently)
My self-summary
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A big fan of what I call the 'milkshake' date. That is 2 people meet and go for a milkshake. Dangle their feet and discuss whatever it is.. 2 strangers. I enjoy that.

Soo. life story. dropped out of a formal education with a few weeks to go, exploring the world up close, living in different cities (11), working online or locally. Miss that adventurous time. somehow it turned out alright thankfully.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now design/engineering ninja. Making 'things' is a profession, hobby, muse, mistress, monastery, mausoleum and mobile-phone academy all in one.

Dedicated to this life of a maker and simply love the age we are living in.

Final stretch of 30's, life and career are going well, but it also means less time to sit down and enjoy everything.

My main priority right now is trying to make a beautiful apartment a home.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Getting along with parents, kids and animals
-Picking out that melody by ear
-Tennis serves
-Sloppy joke deliveries
-Good dinners
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hearty, humorous, read and eccentric.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I really love old things from all different places.

Coffee, independent cinema, jazz music, kiva, delorean cars, house-building, finding good food in nooks of the city, how technology can solve big problems, milkshakes, reading mostly non-fiction things and simply being alive.

*non-fiction exception: was in NOLA recently and rode the streetcar, have started reading a streetcar named desire. latest*

Some random duke ellington, woody allen, nick drake, flamenco music, the knife, billie holiday, helen forrest a WWII singer. the economist magazine, A short-lived band from Montreal called land of talk, all architecture, all spicy foods and deep colors, toronto, portland, istanbul, van gogh, south park, film techniques, jorge benjor, rachmaninoff, dirty projectors, david byrne, miles+trane,
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Starred Spotify Playlists
2. Time to play ukulele at work
3. Chess set
4. Horchata in the SF Mission
5. fleeting correspondence with kurt vonnegut jr. (sent in response to sending him a counterfeit nobel prize). He wrote back on an absolute vodka postcard.
6. Cappuccino or Americano at 4pm
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-Human nature / people's beliefs / collective failure
-The book I would love to write about chinatown... what happens in it...
-Our one chance at life. Sorry reincarnators...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
For the past 6 months getting to a US city. Now back in NY. Love going to MOMA on Fridays when in the area.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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(co-workers and mom please shut your eyes) for what it's worth,...somewhere between vanilla and dom on the spexstrum. It's a hidden part of my personality, quite private. A pure gentleman otherwise.
You should message me if
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you want a male friend and we have something in common, books/tennis/art films/music *up to / including* tada the pure friend zone... (I make a fun platonic date). You love artwork, not just in galleries.

You jam with INTJ/INTPs. you are real. you speak a lovely language. You have some aspect of compassion and humanity for others. You are a little crazy for this life.