being outside the house. being lazy in the sun, bicycle ride along the lake, on the beach, in a park, kayaking on the lake. playing with my hobbies and projects, or simply relaxing.
seems that the weighting system for the questions might be thrown off a lot by me choosing not to answer questions with a hard yes or no, considering both/all of the options are acceptable to me. think about it this way, most of the items on the 'less' side are incorrect (not all).
some examples (and somewhat repetitive) like to travel, do think on my own, go for a bike ride or kayaking, weather permitting, from half an hour to 2 hours, walk to the lake, even when it's 10+ feet of ice cover (in snow/winter gear, take a stroll on the ice bergs), very well mannered...
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On a suggestion from someone, and to file this in a missing section 'What do I want'
To be at that point, that when you wake up next to someone, 1st thing that you do is touch and hold that person, and when you notice that they are waking up too, greet them into the day with kisses. That you get a reply of a kiss, to be pulled by the hand, to snuggle up closer, and hold on tighter... Nothing else matters, and maybe you just don't want to get out of bed kind of a feeling. Just stay there like that the whole day. Too cheesy ??? Then, when all of the fun activities and the hassles of the day are over with, you look forward to going to go to bed with that same person, to fall to asleep, holding on to them, snuggled up, with some more kisses... Is that too much to ask for ?
When you get to that part, you know that everything else is in some agreement, understanding and desired outlook on life. Just content...