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32 M Chicago, IL

My Details

Last Online
Aug 17
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them

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My self-summary
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My name is Lex
*** Update: I think I needed more coffee when I wrote this profile. I can write a story that's bright and lively, but writing about myself is, a.... difficult. Passion. I've always been passionate. I love cities: the lights, the pretty people, the steel and concrete in the sky, even the noise from the trains and the cabs.
What I’m doing with my life
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I’m working on a collection of short stories in my free time. I also do ad work for a communications company. Just trying to be a good person - I think I tried too hard during my 20s, so now I'm simply enjoying life.
I’m really good at
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Writing, snowboarding, running, biking, being hard on myself
The first things people usually notice about me
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My accent
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Sun Also Rises, Less than Zero, All the King's Men, Jesus' Son - Anything by Aimee Bender. If you haven't read Aimee Bender - please do so.

Movies: I Heart Huckabees, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, An Education, Into the Wild.

Music: The National, Radiohead, Bon Iver, Deerhunter, Ryan Adams, Wye Oak. Some other bands that I'm ashamed of liking - I'm trying to be cool here.

Restaurants: I probably eat too many tacos, but L' Patron is amazing. Also have a thing for fine dining when I can get my friends to splurge.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, friends, laptop, books, phone, music
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out to eat with friends.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
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You are interested in a guy who has lived enough to know what girls want and expect, but is young enough to still want to get out on the weekends.