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36 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Feb 3
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay)

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My self-summary
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/* You've reached the profile of a man who shockingly met someone offline. I won't be looking for anyone to grow a terrible mustache for in the near term. So feel free to contact some other handsome, charming men in my stead. Sorry if they are terrible in advance. :( */

Born and raised in Minnesota, Wisconsin educated, holding it down in Seattle for the past six years.

While I do have a bit of sarcastic wit, deep down I'm a compassionate being that always wants to help friends or complete strangers succeed in life. If I can make a connection, I will make it and believe that attitude brings good things back around.

This drive shows heartily as I grow as a user experience designer. Mostly this means I work on techy things you probably have used, but ultimately my dream job is to affect change across things more meaningful than an app.

Always looking for an opportunity to gain and impart wisdom as it's accrued.

I keep myself fit lifting, running and biking mostly during the week. While I don't do a lot of hiking, I'm practically ecstatic from exerting energy when I do. I don't really feel it until I get there, but it's fantastic after the fact.

I'm a pretty solid bike commuter, as I don't own a car, but frankly it's never been an issue. Seattle is tinier than you think.

My next adventure is most likely Iceland in March. Yes I know it's cold and snowy, but it's Iceland!

Things I've been doing lately
• Writing down the songs I sing while riding my bike (ex. Smoke on the Water, Everything In Its Right Place)
• Planning my music startup
• Meditating

Love the Sounders. Last thing...important.
What I’m doing with my life
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Inviting strangers to drinks and dinners. Making Seattle less awkward and more friendly.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being openly communicative. I just believe in honesty and frankness. Friends, strangers, family. They all get it.

Funny things
odd Halloween costumes.

In the past I've gone as:
• Youtube video of the party (i was at)
• a Halloween costume wig (as the item itself)
• Discovery Channel's shark week (had to be there)
The first things people usually notice about me
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Friendly and quick to a joke to break the proverbial ice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Anything Vonnegut, George Saunders, Cormac McCarthy, Palahniuk.

Currently reading:The Pale King by David Foster Wallace

Children of Men, Pulp Fiction, City of God, Amelie, No Country For Old Men. Iron Man Series, V for Vendetta, A Clockwork Orange.

I see a lot of movies, so its hard to pick so I just put some in there.

What am I into lately? Herzog, Death From Above 1979, Neil Young, old Beck, actually revisiting a variety of 90s rock. So great.

Favorite song to dance to: Hercules Theme - Hercules and Love Affair

My Midwestern-ness doesn't feel a lot of seafood, but I'm good for anything else.

Trader Joes Reduced Guilt Guacamole is the only crack I need.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game. impact on the world
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Evenly split between hanging at home and finding a place for engaging conversation about love, life and assorted amounts of subjects qualified or not and cocktails.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I tear up a lot from great things happening to other people. The internet has only exacerbated that.
You should message me if
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you want someone who keeps it interesting. I will find the thing that makes you giggle with delight.