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68 Palo Alto, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 45–63
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 31
White, Other
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Has a kid
English (Fluently), Portuguese (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), French (Okay), Italian (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
About me and who I'd like to meet:
- Able to laugh at my own quirks (and yours).
- Willing to own (or at least take an honest look at) my own stuff and grow through it.
- Strive to know myself better and free myself from myself.
- I give you permission to be who you are.
- Willing to support you in your personal growth, defining what you want & staying on track.
- Flexible to compromise for the greater good.
- Willing to let go of stubbornness.
- I love to laugh -- preferably uncontrollably.
- I'm well traveled and had my share of experiences, and yet there is so much more to experience.
- I want to be your teacher and your student.
- I seek a partnership that inspires honest & healthy self-expression that leads to greater intimacy.
- I expect nothing in you that I don't/can't know or embrace in myself.

About you:
- You know who you are and can articulate it well, along with your dreams, fears, insecurities & passions.
- You also know the place of "not-knowing" and are always willing to take a look.
- You seek truth and inner wisdom, fun, passion and diversity.
- You're willing to share all of you, knowing that openness, integrity & vulnerability are keys to intimacy, freedom and joy.
- You love to love and love being loved.
- You are passionate, physical, athletic, unpretentious, health-conscious, humorous, creative, playful, adventurous, kind, nurturing, intelligent, courageous, generous, spiritual.
- You dig retreats, workshops or adventures that allow new perspectives.
- You enjoy your alone time and ask for what you need.
- You speak your truth, with tenderness.
- You don't expect me to read your mind.
- You clearly distinguish facts from judgments.
- You love children & old people, and those in between.
- You're capable of indulgence, but choose your luxuries consciously and live within your means.
- You are not my mother and I'm not your father.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Practicing awareness, pursuing my bucket list, enjoying the journey. I plan to die young, as late as possible.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Problem-solving, questioning assumptions, seeking new perspectives.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I enjoy skiing, hiking, traveling, photography, the outdoors, movies, tennis, the arts, philosophy, humor. Rock, blues, jazz, Brazilian music. Byron Katie, Marshall Rosenberg, Jack Kornfield, Steven Levine, David Whyte, Richard Dawkins.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Personal growth
Adventure & travel
Dark chocolate gelato
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well, it wouldn't be private then, would it?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are:
attractive, smart and kind,
playful and don't take yourself too seriously,
responsible for your own happiness,
physically and emotionally fit,
financially self-sufficient,
open and speak your truth -- respectfully,
sensual and affectionate,

...and you want to play, learn and love.