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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 42-48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Relationship Type
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Catholicism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English, Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Me? I'm well traveled, I work out and eat healthy. I like to read, watch movies, see plays and musicals and go for walks. I drink socially, and love sushi, Indian and Vietnamese food. I am a cruise director.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Traveling a lot!! Working, too. Doing new things- feed me something I've never eaten! Take me somewhere I've never been. Life is a banquet.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Broadway musicals, budgeting and finance, doing math in my head. Napping, singing, organizing, and making peanut butter toast. I'm not much of a cook. But if you are, that's GREAT! It would be a yin/yang thing. You cook, I'll eat. :-)
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a great big smile! I am high-energy, sporty, and sexy. I am not the shy, quiet type. Think more Julia Roberts and less Catherine Zeta-Jones.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Food: EVERYTHING!! I love to try new things. I don't like beets, olives, coffee, and not too crazy about eggplant, but everything else is fair game. Faves include Vietnamese Pho, Sushi - really, anything Asian. Mexican, Italian, Turkish, Greek, Middle Eastern, ANY kind of Pizza, junk food, health food - get it? Movies: Landmark Century Cinema is a fave, but I'm also a sap for movies like Remember the Titans, Shawshank, and any musical. TV? I don't watch a lot of TV because I'm not around enough to get hooked on anything. I watch Jeopardy when I am home - I guess that is my "favorite show." I'm a news junkie.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I started a list. It included my iPhone, my condo, etc... but is there ANYTHING you really couldn't do without? In the literal meaning, no, there is not. As long as I have my family and my health, that's all that matters.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Work. Life. My next adventure. Food.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working. (I'm a Cruise Director, remember?) But when I am on vacation, you can find me in a theater, or perhaps watching a movie at home. Since I am home for weeks at a time, I prefer to go out on weekdays, when you don't have to fight the crowds. Also, I always make a trip to NYC a couple times a year to see this season's shows. I'm wide open.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Ok, I could down a box of Fruity Pebbles in no time flat.
You should message me if
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You are smart, funny, my height or taller (I'm 5'10 and I love to wear heels) and are open to new things. Please be my age. (20-somethings: I'm flattered, really, but please do not message me. I am really not looking for that.) I am looking for someone like me, with enough differences to make an interesting relationship, one where people learn from one another and grow together in life. Are you extremely smart? I will melt.

Did you run the Chicago Marathon? Do you like to travel? Do you live in the city? Are you a fan of The West Wing? Aaron Sorkin? Do you like the theater? Does it irk you when people send you an email using text-speak? Are you well educated, well traveled, and do you understand stocks and know what a Roth IRA is? (Extra points if you actually have one.) Do you like sushi with red wine? Are you a lover of REALLY good pizza and do you know where to get the best hamburger in Chicago? Answer yes to a few of those, and drop me a line.