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23 New York, NY Cis Man

Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 23–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 3:48pm
Black, Native American, Hispanic / Latin, White
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Strictly kosher
Not at all
Other, and laughing about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English, German (Okay), Swedish (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly), Hungarian (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Hi! I'm Joel and I'm still not used to the new UI?

My idols are Rosa Luxemburg, David Crystal and Tupac, make of that what you will.

So who I am, right? I'm a student of linguistics currently on hiatus from wonderful Hawaii to work and explore in my hometown. Radical politics, free love and the punk scene are my loves (along with all of you, no worries!).

I'm but a babe but totally into doing and learning kink, I'm a switch but I prefer to sub if anything. Also a recently converted relationship anarchist (y'all should look that up) looking for likeminded, or otherwise, folks to build all kinds of relationships with. Hell I'll love you forever if you give me head rubs.

So y'all should hit me up, you have nothing to lose but-Oh wait! I think I'm supposed to put on the chains. I'm kind of shy (trust me if you knew me in person you wouldn't believe it) so I don't often message first, so I might need a little push.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Started a blog, ostensibly for writing on current events from a Luxemburgist perspective we'll see how that goes.

Working way too much, or too little, I dunno yet.

D&D, obviously.

I like making things, from sprite art to languages. We'll be besties if you also like making things.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Sleeping through construction
Declension paradigms or whatever
Not taking the last slice of pizza
Finding great places to eat
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a terrible human being? Or my amazing hair, either afro or frohawk flavoured.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Tolkien, Luxemburg, Debs, Marx, Goldman, Crystal, Austen, De Leon

Usagi Drop, Ichigo 100%, Houshin Engi, Bitter Virgin, DNA^2, Hokuto no Ken, Saint Seiya, Dragon Ball (Z), 20th Century Boy, Phoenix

Lord of the Rings Trilogy, Star Wars, Ringu, Goth, Braveheart, Nightmare Before Christmas, Battle Royale, Edward Scissorhands, Amelie, Rocky Horror Picture Show, Melancholia, Interview With a Vampire, Queen of the Damned, Pan's Labyrinth

Portlandia, Doctor Who (Classic and Revived), Sherlock, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Angel, Xena: Warrior Princess, Friends, Seinfeld, Bob's Burgers, Rick and Morty, Squidbillies, anything by Genndy Tartakovsky or Craig McCracken and most Hanna-Barbera

Record of Lodoss War, Serial Experiments Lain, Evangelion, Nadesico, Crest/Banner of the Stars, R.O.D. Read or Die, Jojo's Bizarre Adventure, Red Garden, Sailor Moon, Shadow Skill, Last Exile

Age of Empires 2, TES: Morrowind, Star Wars: Rebellion, Knights of the Old Republic, Tales of Symphonia, Mega Man X, Crusader Kings 2, Victoria 2, Romance of the Three Kingdoms VII, PlanetSide 2, Ragnarok Online, Space Engineers, Life is Strange, Cities: Skylines

Misfits (Danzig era only), Ramones, Danzig, Cramps, New York Dolls, Horrorpops, Bratmobile, Cranberries, Exist†Trace, Type O Negative, Yoko Kanno, Yoko Shimomura, Jeremy Soule, Nobuo Uematsu, Yuki Kajiura, Bikini Kill, Dead Kennedys, Nirvana, bȏa, Crowbar, A Tribe Called Quest, Earl Sweatshirt, Hodgy Beats, De La Soul, Fugees, Tupac

Whiskey and Cheese, definitely and Cheese and anything involving meat (preferably beef) and/or potatoes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How hard it is to find fellow punks/baby bats because everyone dresses like us now.

Where can I get some toast.

The effects of political consciousness on whiskey, and why that makes it taste better.

Who are you people and why are you looking at me like that?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
What does typical even mean anymore?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I used to be a rocky horror kid, I performed as Janet once, I had rainbow fishnets and heart pasties it was glorious.
You should message me if
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You want to go on a wibbly wobbly timey wimey adventure.

You'll be a friend, a lover or neither of those things or all the things.

You want to sit and read books in silence at each other.

Or drink heavily and cry at the Charmed series finale, or better yet when [SPOILER ALERT] Pru dies.

Especially if you can rock a Bette Page cut or not, whatever.

Or you just want to stay up talking to a weird kid at a weird hour of night.

Gyere beszélgetni velem!