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35 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

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Yesterday – 9:20pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
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Has cats

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My self-summary
The new adventures of a single man and his cat living in the city...

I grew up in an Italian household in a series of suburban states. I went to college in Wisconsin, sorted out the gay thing, and moved to SF as soon as I could.

I've lived here since 2001, longer than anywhere else, and it's definitely home. I worked in the tech industry, went to grad school, and explored many social scenes here in SF. I now work in the design field. I still march to the beat of my own drum and I'm grateful to live in a place where that is eminently possible.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a fun-loving and open-minded guy looking for new friends, dates, or lovers, and perhaps something more.

I work at a large design firm where I lead our brand communications team. I've been interested in science and nature since I was a little kid. It's mostly self-taught, and I am always striving to learn more.

I love the outdoors, and try to go hiking and camping as much as possible. I also enjoy exploring the city with friends, hanging out at the local farmer's market, coffee shops, bookstores, the park, and the beach. I never seem to get tired of this place!

I'm not crazy about clubs but I like to go out drinking and/or dancing in bars from time to time. My favorite places to go out are the Stud, the Eagle, and El Rio.

At home I get into periodic cooking spells, host movie marathons like an upcoming Laurence of Arabia night, and I like to throw a couple rowdy backyard BBQs every year.

[cue sultry tone] I also like quiet movie nights at home and especially enjoy sharing them with someone else.

It's fun chatting with all you sexy guys on OK Cupid, and I hope that we will find the courage to take this thing analog and actually meet up in the flesh once in a while. ;)
I’m really good at
When I think about what has served me really well in life, the following come to mind: I'm a careful listener, a good translator, and a loyal friend.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
It's hard to pick favorites -- however I would rate Haruki Murakami, Flannery O'Connor, Blade Runner, Amadeus, Eurythmics, and pizza as touchstones.
The six things I could never do without
I'm a slave to the rhythm
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My family and friends...I'm a lover, not a fighter
On a typical Friday night I am
No typical pattern but I do know how to stay in...
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 27–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if want to meet a good conversationalist, a fun date, a caring person and perhaps something more...