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30 Rensselaer, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–70
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 2:28pm
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Working on University
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I consider myself to be a modern hippie. I am not promiscuous, nor do I engage in other activities (smoking and etc) that most "hippies" do, but I am of the same mindset. I am anti-war, I am entranced with the music and spirit of the 60's and 70's. I am typically a shy persons upon first meeting, but once I hit my comfort zone, like any true gemini, I have trouble shutting up. Music is my passion in life. I almost always have something playing in the background (to the point where it bothers people because I can watch TV and listen to music at the same time).

People often have a difficult time placing me in my biological age group. I have been told I have an old soul. I have also been told I have a deep soul. Which, I guess, is why people forget my age. I am happy about that. My age is just a number of how old my body is, not a measure of my intelligence, wisdom, soul, or my true age. I may have lived 100 past lives, I do not know. I have a friend who argues with me bitterly, though we still care for each other like brother and sister. We have even discussed the possibility that we have lived past lives as such, or lovers. It is an interesting thing to think about. Age is only a number, meaningless with the exception of indicating how precious time on this planet is.

I am a hopeless romantic, which is probably what keeps my wife around. I love her dearly and no one will ever come between us. We act silly and weird together, and it is a true blessing to come home everyday to someone who keeps me grounded, is there to share in all the joys of my life, and keep me propped up in sorrowful times. It is equally rewarding to be there for her when she needs me and to participate in all the good things that come around to her as well.
What I’m doing with my life
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Mostly I spend about 40-60 hours a week working. Outside of that, my wife and I are casually looking for a house with a bit of land and and a spacious living room to entertain guests and have friends over on a regular basis.

We enjoy going to concerts and different locales across New England for long weekends/mini vacations.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Understanding multiple points-of-view even when they may contradict my own views. I have also been told how generous I am, willing to spend everything I have on my friends and sometimes, I am a bit too generous with my heart.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hair; the length of it, or my facial hair, either way, it is still my hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Thing I Overheard While Talking to Myself and Never Have your Dog Stuffed by Alan Alda, The Female Brain by Louann Brizendine, I typically read more magazines and news articles than anything else

Movies: Billy Jack, Mr. Holland's Opus, Gone in 60 Seconds, Josey Wales, Rocky (1-4 & 6)

Music: Classic Rock (hence the name), but I LOOOOOOVE Pink Floyd!!! I also like Blue October, Tom Petty, Bob Dylan, Bob Seger, Godsmack, Korn, Enigma, Stone Sour...just to name a few

Foods: Cheeseburgers, lobster
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order, family, friends,love, the ability to think freely and be my own person without fear of oppression or persecution, that's all I have for right now...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future... nothing existential, but more practical. Things like owning land, building a home, and starting a family.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing at home after a long week at work, or hanging out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a kinky side and am interested in discussing my interests and the alternative lifestyle with anyone who is also interested. I identify as a switch with sub tendencies, meaning my dominant side is seldom revealed. If you want to know more, ask. :-)
You should message me if
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If any of this profile has intrigued you, you are looking for a concert buddy, you want a new friend, or if you have an interest in kinky/erotic things and would like a friend you could casually dominate.