I give up on dating. Over. Done. Solidly single - forever. I was talking to a woman at a daytime Halloween event at a school. Not hitting on her, just being nice and she casually mentions her fiancé is across the room. Well, her fiancé is tattooed from neck to wrist with skulls, flames and other BS on both arms. On his knuckles he has the words PAIN and F**K . Oh bleep....that ain't no costume, he's wearing that 24/7
Perhaps he was the sweetest honey ever but then I actually talked to him and got the crazy vibe from his eyes pretty strongly as well....Somebody tell me what I am doing wrong. Somebody...anybody. Why can't I get a date???
How can that guy actually find a woman willing to commit her life to him and I can't even get a smile. Hell, I barely even get a reply on this site. Somebody please tell me what I am doing wrong.....PLEASE????? Please, I'm serious. Whatever it is...just tell me.
OK, all better......resuming original profile:
I'm playful and goofy by nature. I think laughter is the most important attribute in a relationship. I'd like to think I'm a grown up kid with and endless desire for fun all enveloped in a responsible package. Most of my successful relationships (Have I had any?? What am I doing here??) have been based on common activities like golf, curling, scrabble, home renovation, biking, as well as country music and too many other interests to list.
I believe you have to dream and seek in order to find and have. I don't want to grow old wondering about what opportunity I may have missed.
It would be wonderful share that joy of companionship with someone. Nothing better than having someone you trust with your heart. I want a relationship where I could tell her anything and she'd be primarily be happy that I shared with her in the first place. Its all about intentions and less about the accidental results in my opinion. Some exceptions do apply.
Women are amazing if you let them be amazing. Men are the same way. I will never have an interest in a relationship where 1 + 1 only equals 2. The whole has to be greater than the sum of the parts - or so they say.