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48 M Minneapolis, MN

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
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Mostly anything
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Christianity, but not too serious about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
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Likes dogs

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My self-summary
Halloween update 2013:

I give up on dating. Over. Done. Solidly single - forever. I was talking to a woman at a daytime Halloween event at a school. Not hitting on her, just being nice and she casually mentions her fiancé is across the room. Well, her fiancé is tattooed from neck to wrist with skulls, flames and other BS on both arms. On his knuckles he has the words PAIN and F**K . Oh bleep....that ain't no costume, he's wearing that 24/7

Perhaps he was the sweetest honey ever but then I actually talked to him and got the crazy vibe from his eyes pretty strongly as well....Somebody tell me what I am doing wrong. Somebody...anybody. Why can't I get a date??? Part time polyamory even sounds good right about now.....

OK, all better......resuming original profile:

I'm playful and goofy by nature. I think laughter is the most important attribute in a relationship. I'd like to think I'm a grown up kid with and endless desire for fun all enveloped in a responsible package. Most of my successful relationships (Have I had any?? What am I doing here??) have been based on common activities like golf, curling, scrabble, home renovation, biking, as well as country music and too many other interests to list.
I believe you have to dream and seek in order to find and have. I don't want to grow old wondering about what opportunity I may have missed.

It would be wonderful share that joy of companionship with someone. Nothing better than having someone you trust with your heart. I want a relationship where I could tell her anything and she'd be primarily be happy that I shared with her in the first place. Its all about intentions and less about the accidental results in my opinion. Some exceptions do apply.

Women are amazing if you let them be amazing. Men are the same way. I will never have an interest in a relationship where 1 + 1 only equals 2. The whole has to be greater than the sum of the parts - or so they say.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now I'm knee deep in the renevation of a couple of house flips....Definitely trying to balance work/social.
I’m really good at
Strategic things. I'm really good at thinking outside the box although you'd never know that unless you asked. I'm pretty sure I should have been a business innovation specialist instead of a math dork.
The first things people usually notice about me
The strength to do what's right. I think its called inner conviction. Politically I'm in the middle. Definitely a social liberal but more likely a fiscal conservative.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Tend to love the romantic comedies! I'll listen to pretty much anything except metal and rap. Love the stories that music tells...Hate the glorification of gangsta culture.
The six things I could never do without
golf clubs
curling broom
hot shower
physical attraction
great communication
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My 3 kids. They are great kids and I am an amazing dad. Actually they aren't real kids... no real kids for me.. but as far as make believe kids go, they are pretty funny.

While some of what happens to us is accidental, a lot of who and what we are is because of vision and planning. Will retirement just come or will I be ready? Will I date anyone or do everything I can to find the right one?
On a typical Friday night I am
Probably thinking how nice it would be to have a great girlfriend for dinner, golf, curling, and who knows what else.

I also like to think about how to communicate more better.

Take the above paragraph for example. I actually did not mean having a girlfriend FOR dinner. I actually meant having a girlfriend WITH dinner. But, that sounds awful as well. Throw me a bone on how to say that???

Oh well....Pointing and grunts never go out of style for men. I'm sticking with that. Can't get that wrong! And, I do (mostly)understand English grammatical structure.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have an interest in the amazing differences between men and women. It makes for some really interesting conversations. Golfwise, I made 3 holes in one in my teenage years. None since! I also had the course record at two different courses. Both were since hoo!

I'm actually reasonably humble but have not yet solved the riddle of how to appear that way and attract the ladies.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 33–52
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You should message me if there is a chance you will still think about me after logging out.