Clearestblue
33 San Marcos, CA
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My self-summary
I have cerebral palsy, also known as the sexiest of the palsies, and I'm not ashamed by it. I'm a proud person with disability who rocks independence to the best of my ability.

If you give me a like, please drop me a message so I can follow-up!

I'm a student of life. I love learning and experiencing new things. There is no limit to the things I'm willing to do except my imagination. I enjoy a good conversation. I'm on a journey to find out what I have to offer the world.

My arch-enemy is gravity and she is always plotting against me. I love to cruise where I can and see things that I'm missing.

I'm not afraid to speak my mind when I have to and I tend not to have a filter between my brain and my mouth. I am not easily offended which surprises some people.

I would like to runaway to Wonderland, but without the acid.

I am loyal, honest, sensitive, funny, witty with overtones of intellect, and cynicism.
What I’m doing with my life
I would like to get back to doing Kajukenbo, a mixed martial art, and teach other disabled people how to defend themselves and exceed their limits.

I would love to spend more time at the theater and watching plays or going wine tasting or going to concerts with someone or trying a new restaurant.

I'm taking up photography as a hobby. I also plan on brewing my own beer.

I'm learning how to throw knives. No cuts so far!
I’m really good at
I'm an active listener who is always up for a conversation. I love just hanging out and talking. I am an open minded person who believes that without honest and clear communication, no relationship is worth having.

I can always good parking.
I'm really good at putting spaces between paragraphs.
I make very obtuse references and I'm really good at it.
Singing to myself.
Memorizing things except how to get somewhere, so no Flight of the Navigator for me
Reading upside down.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have blue eyes and a great smile and a right hand that seems to be possessed thanks to my disability.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Fight Club, Lord of the Rings, Iliad, Odyssey, Lidell and Scott, Sophocles, Caesar, Frank Millar before he went crazy, Neil Gaiman, Bret Easton Ellis

Movies: Donnie Darko, 300, Conan the Barbarian, Gladiator, Battle Royale, Clash of the Titans, Never Ending Story, Aliens, Transformers (Animated 1985), Tron, American Psycho, Akira, Pi, and a lot of others

Music: Various Movie Soundtracks, Alice in Chains, Aphex Twin, Atari Teenage Riot, Bat for Lashes, Bjork, Black Sabbath, The Cardigans, Chris Vrenna, Crystal Method, Cure, Daft Punk, Danger Doom, Dead Can Dance, Death in Vegas, Delerium, Depeche Mode, Dj Krush, Dj Shadow, Doors, Fiona Apple, Fluke, Front Line Assembly, Funker Vogt, Garbage, Genitorturers, Girl Talk, Gnarls Barkley, Goldfrapp, Gorillaz, Guns n' Roses, Jimi Hendrix, Junkie XL, Juno Reactor, Kanye West, Keny Arkana, KMFDM, Lacuna Coil, Lamb of God, Led Zeppelin, Lords of Acid, MIA, Madvillain, Marilyn Manson, Massive Attack, MC Chris, Meshuggah, Metallica, MF DOOM, Ministry, NIN, Nirvana, Otep, Pantera, A Perfect Circle, Portishead, Prodigy, Radiohead, Rage Against the Machine, Rob Dougan, Slayer, Smashing Pumpkins, STP, Sublime, Thievery Corporation, Tool, UNKLE, Velvet Acid Christ, Violent Femmes,
The six things I could never do without
My friends
Sushi
Music
Dancing in my room
Love
Meeting cool people
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think a lot about disabilities. I would like to understand the positive and negative connotations attached to the idea of disability. I believe that the human body is beautiful in all of its forms.

I would love to get involved with foster kids and maybe mentor one. I think that these kids are all too often forgotten about and they slip through the cracks.

I listen to a lot of music. However, I haven't spent a lot of time with the radio lately so I'm always surprised by new music. Some of it gets in my brain and won't go away (Lady Gaga I'm talking about you).

Good food that I miss. I love In and Out.
Also meat loaf and liver and onions. Apparently I think about meat. Juicy Meat.
On a typical Friday night I am
Binging on Netflix.

I would love to spend time with someone who shares my passion for gaming. Board-games, RPGS, and video games. I am not able to play all the games I would like to, so if you wouldn't mind an audience while you play, that'd be fantastic.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If you like me, I will not get it. You will have to hit me with a brick of attraction.
You should message me if
If you want to talk about anything or get a beer somewhere.
If you feel like making the first move.
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