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31 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 19
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Okay)

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What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work as a teacher for students with special needs in a public school in San Francisco. It's a demanding job but I'm really passionate about it.

I'm also involved in activism and advocacy related to education and other issues. I'm a strong proponent of immigrants rights, anti-racism, feminism, and the environmental justice.

I'm out and about in the city and the east bay. Really enjoy seeing visiting authors, activists, going to see music, and dabbling with all the food/entertainment here.

I appreciate folks with discerning tastes but I don't click well with elitists.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking shit with my friends and students, cooking up some good food, mixing in with different crowds, speaking my mind, and finding the good in people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My family has blessed me with a head of distinguished gray hair at a relatively young age :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I'm reading all the time. Sometimes I'm burrowed away at Green Apple for the evening.

Movies: Battle of Algiers, Tambien La Lluvia, Frida, and Happy Gilmore.

TV: Anthony Bourdain, Vice News, Colbert, and the occasional sports game..

Music: Almost everything.. I like going out to reggae and latin music shows.

Food: I like to try different ethnic foods and American breakfast. I also enjoy cooking.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My favorite coffee shops.
My friends.
Reading material.
Good food.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
books I'm reading, people in my life, education, music, local and world affairs.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My ideal Friday would be to leave work, go home, shower, go see something intellectually stimulating, find a new place to eat, and go see some live music. Now that doesn't happen all the time but some form of it does.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're a conscious person but you're fun.
You might be a little stylish.

You're willing to meet in person after a message or two. I'm all about meeting in the real world.

You're not into getting trashed all the time. I'm not much of a drinker.