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30 Portland, OR Woman, Genderfluid, Genderqueer, Non-binary

Woman, Genderfluid, Genderqueer, Non-binary

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21-43
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:55am
Demisexual, Homoflexible, Pansexual, Queer, Gay
Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
5' 1" (1.55m)
Body Type
Judaism but it’s not important
Has cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Somewhat), Latin (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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*not into cis dudes. It feels uncomfortable and wrong being in a heteronormative relationship for me. I get along best with queers of many flavors (queer women, genderqueers, trans women and men and people who don't struggle with sincerity and keeping it real).

I'm witchy, but not just in an aesthetic way. I've been practicing for the past 24 years. I want to start a queer lady posse. If you are down for nerdy shit, karaoke, playing music, making YouTube videos, or just playing board games and high fiving, HMU!

Libra sun, Aquarius moon, Leo rising.

My name is Archer and I am addicted to K-pop.

I present as regular old femme, but I identify as a tween boy/drag queen. I identified as male until the age of fifteen, so gender fluid fits best I guess since I would have been perceived as a trans boy the first half of my life. I've been having a lot of gender feelings lately. I don't feel comfortable occupying trans spaces because I don't feel that is necessarily my space, but I would like to meet more genderqueers and gender fluid identifying people for talks.

I am a pomoerotic/gothsexual/twee as fuck-sexual femmie top. Jew-Witch. Ummmmm...ENFP, but I am pretty sure I am an ambivert. Shy extrovert if you will. I get along best with non-shy introverts and other extroverts.
What I’m doing with my life
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Writing songs on an accordion/piano/synthesizer, film scoring, performance art, comedy writing, making films/memes/cultural trash, lounging on my fainting couch.

I play/sing in two bands. A soul band and a shoegazey/ pop band. Also starting a business teaching voice lessons. If you are looking to improve your singing abilities, get at me!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Singing, having hilarious/melancholic conversations about existential dilemmas, and obsessively analyzing film/television/literature.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Pack a lot of punch in a tiny package? Srsly, people usually think I am 10 years younger than I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Film: Possession (1981), Spring Breakers, Daisies, Holy Mountain, Voyage of the Rock Aliens, Dr. Caligari, Romy and Michele's High School Reunion, Heathers, Sleepaway Camp, Wet Hot American Summer. Horror and Dark Comedies are my favorite of the genres though.

Music: Fiona Apple, iamamiwhoami, Owen Pallett, Elliot Smith, Jon Brion, Cocteau Twins, Grimes, Anamanaguchi, Tracy Bonham, Tune-Yards, Robyn, Kate Bush, Tori Amos.

Books: Nabakov, Michio Kaku, Karl Marx, all the things. I'm an English major so the list is vast.

TV: ALL Joss Whedon shows, Stella/Michael & Michael Have Issues, Star Trek, Adventure Time, Six Feet Under, Battlestar Galactica, Eastbound and Down, Jessica Jones, Nathan for You, Rupaul's Drag Race.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My cat, glasses, voice, pen, piano/accordion and high fives.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The big picture, music, quantum physics, class issues, aliens, psychology, wicca, conceptual music videos, drag queens.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having band practice, making home movies, watching art house flicks, working, dance party!!! or karaoke.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like my cat more than I will probably like you.
You should message me if
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You wanna catch a culty flick, sing some karaoke, or know how to go on an adventure. I wanna scope haunted places! Looking for queer lady friends. Also if you are kinky or a doer or a musician or you are a singer and want to sing songs together...

I'm a hella film nerd and if you are too we will probably get along. Just got my first projector.

I prefer to date women (trans or cis). I'm def down with all 'dem genderqueer people and androgynous ladies too. Actually, I'm most down with genderqueers and trans women. I just have a history of getting on with y'all the most. Witchy femmes also, get at me.