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clever_userid

34 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 4
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Russian (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I don't even know where to begin. And you're probably just looking at my photos. Since I find self-promotion uncomfortable, instead, here is a poem I like:

It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.

It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the centre of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain.

I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it, or fade it, or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own; if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, be realistic, remember the limitations of being human.

It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself. If you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul. If you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy.

I want to know if you can see Beauty even when it is not pretty every day. And if you can source your own life from its presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand at the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, 'Yes.'

It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone and do what needs to be done to feed the children.

It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the centre of the fire with me and not shrink back.

It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away.

I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working, dancing, learning, experimenting, loving.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cutting watermelon. And cuddles.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
is that I am petting their dog.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
So so many. But here are some favorites:

Books
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Diamond Age
Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance
Deepness in the Sky
Kurt Vonnegut
Baroque Cycle
Diskworld Series
American Gods
Anti-Fragile
Alan Watts

Shows
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Archer
Arrested Development
Parks and Rec
West Wing
Coupling
The Office

Music
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Vienna Teng
Regina Spector
Vysotsky
Travis

Food
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I don't like beer, but I like the taste of beer.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I can do without things, but my friends mean the world to me.

I'm totally bluffing, don't take away my phone.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The world. My place in it. How it works, how it doesn't, how to make it better. Who I am, and who I want to become. Who is doing the thinking, and where can he find some ice cream.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dancing, chilling with friends, watching a play, or waiting for you to message me. But I'd never admit the last one.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have no idea what I am doing, but I think it's mostly working.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you have good taste. Or good ice cream.