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34 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:55pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Russian (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I don't even know where to begin. And you're probably just looking at my photos. Since I find self-promotion uncomfortable, instead, here is a poem I like:

It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.

It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the centre of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain.

I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it, or fade it, or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own; if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, be realistic, remember the limitations of being human.

It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself. If you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul. If you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy.

I want to know if you can see Beauty even when it is not pretty every day. And if you can source your own life from its presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand at the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, 'Yes.'

It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone and do what needs to be done to feed the children.

It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the centre of the fire with me and not shrink back.

It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away.

I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.
What I’m doing with my life
Working, dancing, learning, experimenting, loving.
I’m really good at
Cutting watermelon. And cuddles.
The first things people usually notice about me
is that I am petting their dog.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
So so many. But here are some favorites:

Diamond Age
Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance
Deepness in the Sky
Kurt Vonnegut
Baroque Cycle
Diskworld Series
American Gods
Alan Watts

Arrested Development
Parks and Rec
West Wing
The Office

Vienna Teng
Regina Spector

I don't like beer, but I like the taste of beer.
The six things I could never do without
I can do without things, but my friends mean the world to me.

I'm totally bluffing, don't take away my phone.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The world. My place in it. How it works, how it doesn't, how to make it better. Who I am, and who I want to become. Who is doing the thinking, and where can he find some ice cream.
On a typical Friday night I am
Dancing, chilling with friends, watching a play, or waiting for you to message me. But I'd never admit the last one.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have no idea what I am doing, but I think it's mostly working.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–34
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you have good taste. Or good ice cream.