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32 Athens, GA Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–37
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

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5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I still have a lot to learn about myself, and my experience with relationships is somewhat limited. Sometimes I'm not even sure if I am the relationship "type". But most of the time, I really long for companionship (I'm speaking both about sexual longing and deep friendship)... both of which are lacking at the moment.

I don't seek a materialistic life. I don't have a lot of things nor do I have a lot money. And I don't really care to have much more than what I have right now. Though I am a collector of rare plants and my cat was expensive... :-/

I'm on okcupid because I want someone to hang out with (but not just anyone... I want to truly click with someone). I want someone to shake up my life and inspire me.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work as an organist/ choir master at an Episcopal Church on the outskirts of Atlanta. I also live in Athens and play piano for an Episcopal ministry here (different times/days). I also work as a horticulturalist at a Botanical Garden. Yes, I'm very busy with 3 jobs.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-adapting to people and new environments (i've moved around quite a bit)

-seeing the good in the not so good

-being self critical

-being patient

-isolating myself

-obsessing over things and people. :-/

-loving cats :-)

-improvising on the piano

-eating healthy (i'm a bit obsessed with nutrition)


-keeping a clean car

-being completely open about what is going on in my head

-liking dogs (though I've made some exceptions :0

-pop culture (music, TV, etc...)

-small talk and socializing in general (though I am improving)

-telling people NO

-witty conversations and puns



-more to come as I think of them
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
skinny, quiet (i tend to creep up on people), aloofness
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Stephen Sondheim and Bernard Herrmann. but i mostly listen to Classical Music some favorites include: Wagner, Herbert Howells, Brahms, Arnold Bax, Aaron Copland

i love good food. indian and middle eastern foods are exceptionally tasty.

movies: Bridesmaids, Rosemary's Baby, Angels in America, Monster, Mysterious Skin, most stanley kubrick movies, Magnolia, Happiness... to name a few... i love going to the movies. oh, and recently, i've been introduced to the wonderful work of david lynch

authors: margaret atwood, Pema Chodron

tv: simpsons, PBS, southpark, Modern Family, Tales from the Crypt... I love scary movies and TV

oh, i really like the comedians dame edna, and simon amstell . i really like to laugh people! i need to laugh.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
someone who genuinely thinks i am funny
a piano
Anglican Liturgy
hot water
a space for gardening
someone to have stimulating conversation with (which is very much absent right now :(
access to Whole Foods or some other specialty grocery store.
church community (or any community)
rare plants
people to help/ visit (this is a foundational component of my happiness, for it is something i feel compelled to do
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what i want out of my life. i'm fiercely independent, but i also crave interaction. i also think about food a lot and music.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
i'm usually watching a nature documentary or watching a starcraft cast on youtube (if i need comfort). or playing piano. or porn...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i like big bubble butts :/