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  • Ages 22-39
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Yesterday – 6:14am
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Post grad
Might want kids
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat), Chinese (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat), Korean (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I have lived in several places, across Pacific Ocean, from Midwest to east coast and then I'm glad to finally call San Francisco home, where I still have tons of things to explore. And I still embrace changes, well the good ones: new hobbies, a healthier life style, making new friends along the way, learning new skills, and maybe finding someone who can share the joys out of our lives.

And I'm an ESFJ.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a user experience designer. Honestly, doing things that make me feel like a psychology-technology-designer is intellectually stimulating. Well yeah, it might still sound like a tricky mystery of nerdy power, psychic magic and art spirit to some of you but it always seems more complicated than what it really is.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I can't say I'm an avid art lover but I do like spending time in an art gallery or a museum. I also like painting and sketching.

I can't read music sheets well but I learned how to play piano by myself, well mostly playing by ears in C major.

I'm also a world traveller and my to-visit-list is long.

I love outdoor activities, hiking and kayaking... I always miss the time kayaking in the Huron river when I lived in Michigan.
I dig delicious food with different styles, original and fusion. I think cooking is another form of designing and I try to cook in a creative way when I have time.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People may feel I'm quiet and look like a DQ at first (diary queen, cold face). But I'm actually quite easy to get along with.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: Wreck it Ralph, The Lord of the Rings, Toy Story 3, wedding banquet, Inception, Prayers for Bobby, Spirited Away, WALL.E, Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon, the Social Network, Léon, Lola rennt, Little Miss Sunshine, August Rush.....

Music: Joe Hisaishi, Adele, Passion Pit, Imagine dragons, Ayumi Hamasaki, cold play, death cab for cutie, the killers

Shows: I'm a big musical fan. Wicked is so far one of my favorites.

Books: To kill a mocking bird, The art of War, Tao de Jing, Little Men, Love in a Fallen City, Switching Time, The Little Prince, Mourning the Death, a Dream of Red Manssion, the Dancing Girl of Izu, Naruto(sometimes comic books :P)

Food: Seafood, Italian, Thai, BBQ, Indian, hot pot, and Shanghai steamed buns...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good food
Vacation and trips
a comfortable pillow
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I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Five year plan. And maybe occasionally what would I do if I had a Neo's phone kiosk in Mateix. oh and the two sentences from an ancient poem written 1000 years ago:
欲寄彩箋兼尺素,山長水闊知何處. ;)

(I found some people trying to use google translate to get the meaning, but yeah you know it's not as easy as to translate a washing machine user guide. But these are totally something hopelessly romantic. I'd like to explain to you if we managed to meet in person. ;)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I enjoy a relaxing Friday night home alone reading a book or watching a movie. Or hanging out with friends cooking or bar crawling.
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