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31 Fountain Valley, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 16
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Not at all
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and wants more
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Update: Being that my son recently moved out of state I will in all likelihood be moving as well. I will be Alabama bound soon. This has been my spoiler alert to all out there.

To start with, Bojack Horseman is my spirit animal. Diane Nguyen is the ghostwriter in my head. If you get that reference bonus points! If you end up liking my profile enough to want to get that, binge watch Bojack Horseman on Netflix.

I will mention this again, so here it is, I value honesty, some would say to a fault. My heart and emotions are on my sleeve, except when my head manages to give them much needed time-outs. My head and heart are better communicators now than teenage me ever imagined haha! I am a frog, that when kissed stays a frog. I like being a frog, frogs are real, whereas the Prince is still a matter of debate for the crypto zoologists of the world. Frogs can still be loyal, loving, and tend to have interesting perspectives on life, even with warts.

I have a grand sense of humor that vacillates between dry and biting ;-) and has gotten me far in this experiment called life. I Try to find the good in people and every situation and leave myself open to the experiences offered by the universe. I love the outdoors but she doesn't always love me back. (Yes I am talking to you sand and beaches)! I am always up for meeting new people and hope to one day find that lasting love that carries you through the years.

Geek is in my soul (and usually on my t-shirt haha)! I enjoy going to comic cons, small press expos, and anime conventions. I think the geek also extends to my interest/fascination organized crime and criminal thinking...must be the psychologist in me. Visited the Mob Museum in Vegas this summer, best museum ever! I won't turn out like Harley Quinn I promise. (She is my favorite after Oracle).

I truly believe that everyone in this world has something to offer, and that people are more than a situation they may be in. So much can come from learning to see what truly makes a person who they are, and who they can become. Cliche? Maybe to some, not to me.

Life is all about connection. I find myself paying so much more attention to the connections I have made in my life.

I live in California and used to have a pass so my obligatory Disneyland reference is thus, New Orleans Square is my favorite area. I love the Nightmare Before Christmas and Frozen. Especially since Frozen teaches us that you don't need no man for your true love!
What I’m doing with my life
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I am the best dad I know to the most amazing 6 1/2 year old boy ever :-D I provide live-in case management/care services for an elderly family friend of mine. My background is in social work most recently for people with developmental disabilities, which was the most bureaucratic fun I have ever had. I have done work in special education as well.

As well I am indulging in my desire to learn how to cook and as a result become a better eater. I want to be able to enjoy my food on an intellectual and emotional level. When I think about how much time we spend eating I figure why not be able to lose myself in the experience.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Adapting to what life throws at me. Diffusing tense situation with either humor or diplomacy. Helping bring out the best in others, making new friends, awkwardness, coming up with random yet insightful comments. The rest you will just have to find out for yourself :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My wheelchair
Sense of style
At least those are the things I've had noticed most recently by
strangers haha
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Around the World in 80 Days, 20,000 Leagues Under the Sea, Frankenstein, Invisible Man, The Metamorphosis, Anna Karenina, Crime and Punishment, Fables, DMZ, Hack/Slash, The Song of Fire and Ice books, anything sci-fi/fantasy for that matter, Zombie Survival Guide, Phantoms in the Brain by Vilayanur S. Ramachandran (I am a neuroscience nerd).

Shows: Bojack Horseman, The Mind of a Chef, any food or travel related show or documentary, 30 Rock, Big Bang Theory, Mike and Molly, Alcatraz, Bored to Death, Criminal Minds, Body of Proof, Once Upon a Time, Grimm, Parks and Rec, House, Idiot Abroad, Sunny in Philly and the League, Archer, Boardwalk Empire, Sleepy Hollow, Chuck, Mindy Project, New Girl ( Jess and Nick are my favorite TV couple) plus more...

When it comes to movies I am too varied to list them all, but here is a sample to get you started. Nightmare Before Christmas and Frozen! Any horror or superhero movie, documentaries, romcoms, you get the idea. I love the movie Midnight in Paris. Who doesn't want to live in 1920's Paris, right???

Music: I have fallen immediately and madly in musical and lyrical love with Melody Gardot! The standards by Buble, Sinatra, Dean Martin, Bobby Darin, anything jazz. Those genres of music just make me feel at home. Think anything they would play on the vocal jazz pandora station. I am also big on Adele, Kate Nash, Florence + the Machine, Passion Pit, fun., Lumineers, Macklemore & Ryan Lewis, Lady A, Lindsey Sterling, Katy Perry, Kacey Musgraves...
With movies I love practically everything, especially horror movies.

I love hummus and tofu!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My son and family
Music (especially classical, jazz and blues)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
All things geek
Ways to make life better for myself and my son
Could Inspector Gadget have kids?
If both people answer yes to the question about wanting their partner to be kinkier, does this inevitably lead to a "kink off" to find the answer as to which partner is kinkier???
Is there a parallel universe me that is on their version of OkCupid?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Do I have a typical Friday night???

The nerd in me may be watching neurology lectures on youtube.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like women who curse/swear/cuss. It puts me at ease and I think it is hot. There I said it!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You would like someone to cram with for this pop quiz called life :-) You aren't completely thrown off by my being a dad or a lifetime achievement winner for geekiness. Definitely if you are looking for that relationship to last through the years, and don't mind me warts and all.

I want to put it out there that I value honesty and learning from my experiences. That being said, if we start talking and you decide what you are looking for just isn't there, please tell me. Think of it like an OkCupid comment card haha. I will gladly do the same for you. Just because your Mr. Right may not be me doesn't mean I don't want you to find them.