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closet_urbanite

49 F Sunnyvale, CA

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 39–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:24am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Hospitality
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Russian (Fluently), Italian (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Definite extrovert. Former ex-pat. I've lived abroad for 10 years. Completely social. Likeable, nice, positive person with an inviting energy.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to have an extraordinary life and doing a pretty good job of being happy most of the time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Languages: fluent in English, German and Russian... and have also studied Italian, French and Spanish.
Everything domestic....I'm great at managing a household. But I hesitate to say that because I wouldn't want you to think my aspirations end there. It fits in with what I do professionally--I do Corporate housing and one facet of that is managing a Hacker House.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My warm and inviting energy and that I have a way of making people feel comfortable around me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm not really good at picking "favorites" of anything. I like a lot of books, movies, shows, music and food.
Books--I can't stand bad writing and will put a book down no matter how many people are talking about it. I didn't make it very far with 50 Shades of Gray. I've read a lot of classic literature...including Goethe and Dante in the original...but I do admit it was at the university. Otherwise, I'll read a lot of non-fiction. I was a Psych major and am clearly interested in humans and their interactions and behaviors.
I haven't had a tv for at least 5 years, though I do watch Netflix. I've enjoyed Breaking Bad, Weeds, Orange is the New Black, Game of Thrones...just started watching The Walking Dead.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm low maintenance...I don't think there are six "things" I could never do without.....there are people I would be devastated to not have in my life but "things" can be replaced or I can live without them. Five years in Russia just after the collapse of the Soviet Union taught me that I don't "need" a whole lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to make things better and more efficient...I am half German, afterall. I'm not like that with people though. I'm really big on live and let live.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Socializing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm actually 49, just like my profile says. I didn't just write that because I'm 50 something. Don't really understand why people lie about that on their profiles.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have a rich vocabulary and are good at playing with words.
You're creative and artistic, quick-witted, have a goatee, a piercing, a tattoo and you like to challenge stereotypes.
I'm not stuck on any of this though... it's more about the energy I feel from you and between us.