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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:15am
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Open relationship
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Russian (Poorly), German (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I'm some mixture of good old East Coast liberal elitist and West Coast hippiedom and that Minneapolis dirty DIY aesthetic. Lived in Maryland, Seattle, the Twin Cities, and now I've been back in Seattle for the past 5 years.

I'm a pretty nice guy, generally, just not in the "I'm a nice guy, why don't these whores want to do me?" sense.

Nothing is true, everything is permitted.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work in the social services field with clients in low-income housing, in a decent job with a pretty good agency, now finally on a semi-normal schedule. Future plans remain a little foggy, but that moment of clarity should arrive any minute now.

Anyway I distract myself by reading and biking around and playing guitar and generally obsessing over music.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making conversation when I enjoy it. A lot of people would probably describe me as quiet but it's not really true.
making cookies
very amateur musicianship
bonding with animals. There are now at least three cats that roam around my neighborhood and try to sneak into my apartment once in a while (update: where'd the nice cats go? Now I just run into Nibs, the neighborhood celebrity with a tendency to draw blood).
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have kind of cool hair. Sometimes I brush it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Probably my favorite is The Master and Margarita, by Mikhail Bulgakov. I've been reading a ton of Russell Hoban lately, and wishing my brain worked the way his did. The NYRB Classics collection seems to have an unending supply of fascinating books that I've never heard of before. My bed has a little bookshelf in the headboard.

I could talk your ear off about the brilliance of the Moomin books and Walt Kelly's Pogo. Honestly, they probably explain more about me than this page could.

There are huge gaps in my knowledge of movies, especially recent ones. I usually just check out whatever catches my eye at the library or Scarecrow. The films that I watch a whole lot tend to have a sort of hypnotic weirdness - I love Performance, Aguirre: The Wrath of God, If..., A Canterbury Tale, Out of the Past. I dig old-school screwball/romantic comedies. Sometimes Repo Man seems like the only movie that matters.

I have not seen either the Walking Dead or Game of Thrones. Is that a dealbreaker? Shows I think are rad - Twin Peaks, The Prisoner, X-Files, The Wire, Homicide, Rocky & Bullwinkle, Carnivale, Slings & Arrows.

I'm probably overly obsessed with music, yet i never seem to know the hot bands of the moment. I love Mekons, Robyn Hitchcock, Brian Eno, Fleetwood Mac, classic OutKast/Goodie Mob, pop hits from 10 years ago... I'm really sick of the recent trend of pop songs that are about having as! much! fun! as! possible! tonight, because we might die tomorrow. Sometimes you might want to do cool things the next day, and not have a massive hangover, right?

I might come off like a grumpy old man sometimes.

I am open to most types of food. I need to cook more.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
a bicycle
something to play music on
people to talk to
getting to see my family's dog every so often
occasionally getting really caffeinated and writing and listening to music
exploration, movement, the possibility of metamorphosis
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the past, imaginary conversations, girls, why I don't have a band
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Maybe going to a show, maybe seeing friends, maybe staying in and reading.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a bald spot. It's actually a scar.
You should message me if
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we real cool. Due to some interesting recent happenings I am now in a non-monogamous but pretty damn committed long-distance relationship, but I'm always down to meet people. I have no particular expectations, but if you want to hang out at a bar/cafe and have intellectual discussions, or puerile, immature discussions, or some combination of the two, that'd be cool. Or if you want to form a band.

Also, I have a car. I don't really like that I have a car, but it justifies its existence when it lets me get out of the city and go hiking/exploring somewhere. This happens more often when there's someone to go along. So if you want to help improve my car's self-esteem, well, there you go.